Originally Posted by
4 ratties
When a guy hasn't married u after 5 years that means he's lazy and comfortable and doesn't have the will to commit to you truly.
Marriage isn't just a piece of paper like this idiot above me said. That's sad that person feels that way. I guess they would marry anybody since it doesn't mean anything. That's so stupid and makes no sense.
I'm in the camp of marriage being just a bit of paper. I realised that it was just paper when I left my first marriage - paper to get in and paper to get out. Now I've got a lovely defacto partner I've been with for 21 years and we don't need a bit of paper to make us stay together. We stay together because we want to - not because of a promise made and signed.
As far as marrying anybody because marriage doesn't mean anything.....why would one bother getting married at all if it meant nothing? Now you're making no sense. Why why go through all the money, fuss and bother for something which means nothing to me? I'd rather use the money and effort to renovate our house.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.