He cheated now she's giving him Hell.

[Lady Murasaki]

So my husbands ex is giving him Hell. She's known for fake pregnancies, fake miscarriages, and tampering with tests. She won't even actually take a test around my husband to see if she's pregnant. I told him I'd give him another chance because it's funny sounding. We have a bit of an open relationship because of my injury and inability to perform as much as I'd like. I told him if he messed with her she'd POP up pregnant. She immediately called him and told him "Congratulations you're a daddy." She claimed she was on the pill, couldn't get pregnant and that she was close to ovarian cancer, and that she's sleeping with 2-3 other men on in the same apartment building. He's only messed around with her for no more than a week if that. I knew when he'd gone out. All in the same day she said she was unsure because the test looked funny and getting tested again 2 days later. When removed all social networking she text saying, "Oh so you're gonna let me raise this baby by myself? Really?" First she is...then she's unsure, then she's getting tested and ignored she immediately sounds pregnancy. When I asked her about the tests she put it all on him...that he wanted her to have a baby, that he wanted a divorce, etc. Told me that she was gonna give me papers from her doctor which she hasn't seen yet...she sent me a picture of the test but it looks so faded it looks like she tried to wait for a faded something. When I took my pregnancy test it was clear as day. The test looks funny and now this female is talking about dropping by my house and showing me papers which may be fake also...she's a homewreaker and he's an idiot I know and so am I for allowing all of this...but him and I do want to start from scratch but we both wanna know...does this test look positive because it's extremely unclear and I hear that the vertical blue line test isn't very reliable...and we also wouldn't be surprised if she said she'd have a miscarriage...she has a history of doing that. He told her early that he wasn't going anywhere and that he was planning a bigger family with me. (We have a 2 year old) He wouldn't try and get her pregnant knowing that his son, funds on the line, and already planning a baby with me. What does this test look like to you? It looks faded like it's sat too long...and ovulation tests look similar not to mention she's been seeing her ex for a good while. Look at the test and tell me what you think. I think she's faking to split us...she's been known to leave around fake tests.

[Struggler]

It's got the pregnant line on it. I'm going to hazard a guess in saying who ever took the test is pregnant.

[michelle23]

Youve got an open relationship due to an illness? Okay so what if she IS pregnant? What if shes not making it up this time? What if she has given him an STD which he could give to you as she sounds like someone who gets around..

Its your life and your decision how you live it. How often are you capable of having sex? If you can manage once a week then I wouldnt be letting him f**k anyone else.. SMH

[Insomniash]

It looks like a positive test, but the blue texts are notorious for evaporation lines so it could be that as well. You say he messed around with her for a week and when he broke it off and she immediately said she was pregnant? How immediate are we talking here? Because it takes about 2 weeks for the hormone to become strong enough to show a positive on a home pregnancy test (especially when the line is that strong). Implantation alone can take a week, and once that is complete then it takes more time for the hormone levels to increase. If she is claiming within a weeks time that your husband impregnated her and she is in fact showing positive on a test it is highly likely it is not his baby.

Having said that, not to judge, but open relationships lead to this sort of nonsense and ultimately to marriages ending. Everyone I have known in similar arrangements have divorced.

[TablesandChairs]

It looks positive for pregnancy; it's very hard to get the second line if no pregnancy hormone is detected but then, I'm sure it's not impossible.

I understand you have an open arrangement with your partner due to your medical issues - fair enough, that's your business. But is it possible that he could see a professional escort instead of just any old lunatic who clearly wants to get pregnant so she can keep a guy? It puts your relationship at risk - if she IS pregnant, then your lives will change. Not worth it for a quick roll in the hay. He should be sensible. He should be wearing protection. He's a moron.

[michelle23]

Your husband has taken complete advantage of you OP. Hes using your illness as an excuse to act like a single man. This is ridiculous. I would divorce him immediately. Even open relationships have rules and he is breaking them.

He should be
1/. Using condoms no matter what she says. He could give you an STD
2/. Being very private and ensuring nobody finds out who else he is f**king. Hes making you look like a doormat
3/. Only allowed to mess around on your say so with someone you approve of
4/. Should respect your wishes when you say "no, not her".

You are being a fool for him and letting him get away with everything. Id rather be on my own than put up with this. Your husband is a stupid cunt you are an idiot.

I would have a serious re-think about your marriage and what he has done. Not only has he ignored your request not to sleep with her and cheated, he has also put himself and you at risk of catching some horrible disease and possibly gotten this psychotic b**ch pregnant.

I am curious to know how often you and him have sex? How bad is your injury? And is it fixable so sex can be put back on the menu? I would NEVER agree to let my husband f**k someone else even if I was sexually impaired. Id rather divorce him and let him go so I don't have to deal with the pain of knowing he is out with someone else.

Remember the vow "for better or for worse". You could have bought sex toys to use on him, given him more bjs, had sex as frequently as possible, even considered threesomes where you are present and involved.. Anything but allowing him to go out and act like a dog chasing b**ches in heat. he obviously now thinks he can do whatever he likes, with whoever he likes and you will just sit back and take it. Did you and he not discuss boundaries? And rules? SMH again

[basilandthyme]

You've got an open relationship but SHE'S a home wrecker? Give me a break.