Should I contact him?

[Angel29]

I joined a social group to meet new people. I met a guy 3 months ago at a party, we got on well but he then put his arm around me and kissed my cheek - I felt embarrassed and ended up having a go at him. I saw him 2 weeks later and apologised as I felt guilty for acting like that and he apologised for being drunk. We ended up getting on well and he said he'll see me at the next event.

We saw each again but he got jealous I spoke to a guy so he danced with another woman which I ignored him. Then the last time I saw him we got on really well and he said he dropped by before he had a stag do to go to why drop by when you have other plans? He said we should swap numbers incase we all ended up in the same bars later on. He came back to the party with the groom as the stag do had low numbers. He asked me to dance but I didn't know how to establish physical contact, I think he was weary after the first time so the dancing was awkward. I had to leave early and we kept smiling at each other when I left.

I haven't seen or heard off him since and that was 5 weeks ago. I know he has logged on to see what events are on in my area which he has only put his name down for events in his local area. He said last time it cost him a lot of money to come as he lives 50 miles away and the groom did not tell him everyone dropped out of the stag do which the groom walked off and never even said goodbye to him. I know he has a mortgage too. I think there was miscommunication going on but I genuinely thought we got on well when we spoke. Would I look desperate texting or would he be flattered?

[basilandthyme]

Angel, did you say or do anything to let him know that you'd like to hear from him again? From where I'm sitting, he probably thinks you're not interested.

Having said that, I also warn you to avoid a guy who gets jealous. You're not his girlfriend - and until he makes a move, you can dance with anyone you please. Frankly, his jealousy over you dancing with another guy makes him look like he has the maturity of a 15yo boy.