Hi there,
I'm new here and need some advice.
I have been best friends with a guy for about 8 years now, and one night a while ago I was round at his and things changed. He told me he had really strong feelings for me and has done for ages. This took me by a huge surprise but I felt a similar way too. Then as we were talking about what to do I said I felt bad because he used to go out with one of my friends and I wouldn't want to hurt her. He didn't have much of a response to this and I think took it badly. After I left his he stopped talking to me and I tried texting him but I just get ignored.
Every now and then he'll send me a message or a text but as soon as the conversation gets going he stops responding.
Not only do I miss him as a friend but I also miss him as more. I am on the verge of just asking him straight up what happened and why he ignores me. But I don't want to ruin our friendship, although at this rate I don't think we have one anymore.
What should I do? Any help would be greatly appreciated!