Hi!
Im 24 and have been seeing this girl for the last 4 and a half months.. we love each other a lot and have a definite future together. However...
She has a huge past and I do not. although she has told me pretty much everything (BUT after I confronted her about it) and upon my saying broken her 'friendship' with her ex(s) I do not feel secure about it simply because I have not had the kind of experiences she did.
In the begining when we got together, she would talk to this guy online and on the phone , telling me that he was her 'friend'. Only later did i by chance find out that she had a physical relationship with this guy (**** buddy?) for like a year. Obviously I was incredibly uncomfortable about this situation and I told her to choose between being with me and this 'friendship'. she chose me. This is almost a 3 month old story now, but the scars still remain and I always seem to doubt/not trust her because of this. The thoughts of her saying similar things to me that she did to her ex(es) makes my blood boil and I feel like running away from it all.. but we do have an excellent relationship and that makes me feel this whole situation might be worth it in the long run..
Can anybody offer any tips/suggestions that may help in dealing with such issues? How can I learn to trust again?
thanks!
peeps