I have no idea what to do, i'm seing him on sunday, please give me some advice!

[khachako]

I like this neighbour of mine but it’s only this week that we’ve really started spending time together, we jog, well i say jog but i just make us walk the whole way because that way i can spend more time with him. Sometimes it seems that he likes me, for instance he looks at me a lot when we talk and he’s absolutely lovely in the way he talks and he sometimes complements me and just yesterday he offered to give me a piggy back over this muddy bit and then he said i weight like a feather, which made me feel so good. And when i’m around him i feel so at ease and i flirt a lot with him, i didn’t know i could flirt so much! But anyway i feel as though he’s giving me mixed signals, for example he added me on facebook and hasnt really gone through my pictures i dont think, i mean if it was me and i added someone i liked i would try to find out everything about them, but i guess guys are different, and anyway he always has something to do so our jogs are no longer than an hour, again if it was me and i liked someone i went jogging with i would try to make it last longer. I also did a very stupid thing yesterday, he asked me why i didn’t have a boyfriend and i said because i didn’t want anyone, he caught me off guard and i just blurred out the first thing that popped into my head. So i guess my question is whether he likes me and should i tell him that i like him on our next jog which is on sunday?

[Ric]

To me it seems like he likes you.
You don't know if he went through your pictures, there's no way to tell.
And it's possible he actually has something to do that can not be changed. He might wish to spend more time but it doesn't mean it's possible for him.

I'd say to just give it a shot.
And if you don't have the guts, give yourself some more time and keep jogging with him and just connecting. But I can't promise it will be any easier a week from now or a month from now. And if you wait too long you'll attach yourself to him as a friend too much and it will be even harder.

[khachako]

that was a great answer, thanks

[Anturo]

I think he likes you. He was trying out ground when he asked the boyfriend question.

However your answer has made him question his possible attempt to ask you out for fear of rejection.

As guys we know that when we ask a girl out we can be rejected. Some are able to handle it better than others.

Most however try not to ask the question until they are sure the answer will be yes.

In his case with your answer of because you don’t want one puts into his mind "If I ask her out she will say no".

So my advice keep jogging with him don't worry about what he has going on right now but at the same time try to let him know that you are open for dating.

How that is to be done? That one is on you.