I have been friends with this guy for about 3 years and we've been very on and off. He is the type you can not read and he is the type who flirts and is boyfriend-alike towards all girls, he does never show his emotions, so you never know where he stands. He is a mystery and always will be. I fell in love with him when we started to hang out, but he finally made it clear that he was not interested in me as a girlfriend. Instead, I chose to be his best friend. 1 year after, I am still in love him, and I actually started to see other guys.. But then suddenly he started to fight more for our friendship- The problem is .. We are arguing all the time! there is just a little period where everything is good, but then either he drags himself away from me, get together with other girls (Mainly my girlfriends) so I feel jealous or else he just does not think of me. AND I JUST DON’T KNOW WHAT I MEAN TO HIM! The problem is that every time I try to keep a little distance from him, he will come again and pulls me back - especially if I start seeing another guy. Either we have this amazing time together or else I will hurt and get angry (and Jealous because he kisses and does things to other girls he NEVER did to me), and he gets upset because he does not know what's going on .. It is as if he wants me to be In love with him but he does not want to be in love with me in return.. how can this be avoided? I think we are fighting because I care a lot more of him than he from me. : s