My name is Valerie. I live around the Washington D.C. area and I have been struggling to rebuild my life (and marriage) after the discovery last September that my husband was having an affair. Needless to say, its been a long, tough road! At this point, I'm really struggling with whether or not to remain in the marriage. I take my vows VERY SERIOUSLY and have really turned to my Faith in all of this but my husband has really just waffled back and forth for the past 6 months and I'm afraid I'm at my breaking point.

Besides this, I'm normally a shy, happy, loyal person who once you get to know me, I don't shut up