fat bottomed girls..

**x0x.x0x** · 10-02-10, 12:55 PM

Okay so here is the thing. I have been dating my guy for about 2 years, slight off and on because neither is of us is perfect. About a year ago, he cheated on me with, well, a large girl. I am 5'7" and thin by nature, long legs, and I have smallish boobs which he knows is an insecurity of mine, but I take pride in my body. I broke up with him and he spent the past seven months trying to convince me that I am the one for him, he made a mistake, etc. We got back together about a month ago, I decided to give him another chance, but recently found out on the history of his computer that the majority of porn he likes is large women. And I am not talking voluptuous, I mean (without trying to be offensive) gigantic sagging boobs, rolls galore, and just huge lady parts. I asked him and he said it is just "something different to look at". He said it has nothing to do with me and him, that if he didn't want to be with me, why would he put so much time and effort into getting me back.

I know the saying porn is porn and porn itself is not a big deal, but you combine fat girl porn with the fact that he cheated with this type of girl before, and this type of girl is nothing like me..

Is there any explanation other than I am not really what he is physically attracted to? Have any of you ever done this?

**vashti** · 10-02-10, 01:00 PM

If you are both young, it could be that he never was mature enough to express what it is he is REALLY attracted to, for fear of being laughed at by his friends.

**misombra** · 10-02-10, 01:09 PM

i had a dream that i hung out with freddie mercury last night. it was one of the best dreams i've ever had.

**VincenzoG91** · 10-02-10, 01:30 PM

To quote the late Mister Mercury, "Get on your bike and ride!"

Meaning, leave this guy behind. He has a fetish, and you aren't it.

**Illusional** · 10-02-10, 01:33 PM

[url]http://www.loveforum.net/ask-male-forum/38812-boyfriend-seems-lying-about-porn-why-would-he.html[/url]

this girl has the same problem as you and we have talked about the same things.

raverboy

**Perryville** · 10-02-10, 01:34 PM

XO, if you want him to notice you more, start eating them hostess twinkies.

**Illusional** · 10-02-10, 01:46 PM

i've heard about deep fried twinkies in vegas.. never tried them though. i hate sweets.

raverboy

**Perryville** · 10-02-10, 02:01 PM

After a boat load of twinkies and some Ben and Jerry's, you'll be right up his street.

**SirWagginston** · 10-02-10, 02:19 PM

Based on the title, I thought you were going to ask about girls with big butts. That, I like, as do lots of people. Girls that are big, period, though...

Maybe the twinkies are a good idea.

**lastwish** · 10-02-10, 11:51 PM

Omg...don't get obese just for him unless you are planning to spend the rest of your life with him. Once you put on the pounds, its hard to be back to normal. What if you guys break up? You will be undesirable to 95 percent of the male population.

**lhn** · 11-02-10, 12:03 AM

@ OP... Porn is porn. He was naughty once before but I firmly stand AGAINST the saying 'once a cheater, always a cheater'.

If he keeps it to porn then thats fine.
Don't feel insecure. Fantasy is fantasy, you're his reality and as long as you're happy, keep your bloke.

If it makes you unhappy, then perhaps he isn't the one for you?

**Gigabitch** · 11-02-10, 01:16 AM

If it was just the kind of porn he liked to look at, it would be one thing, but the cheating takes it to the next level. I don't know if you'll ever be able to trust this guy.