I dont know what to do

[Teh_wulf]

There is this girl i really like. I suppose you could call it love. we have been seeing each other for a month now. But we aren't calling it a relationship. We had sex 1 week ago, But earlier she said we need to slow things down, because she had alot of bad relationships, some stalking her, other's (more serious stuff) i have already dealt with them people.

She says that she is trusting me a little more each day. begining to like me more. But over the past 2 weeks she has been thinking about it. Yesterday, we had a great day, like, better than any other day, and today she said we need to slow it down. I'm confused, she said there isn't another man, and i believe that, i was wondering what makes someone change their mind so quick. Any advice would be greatly appriciated. thanks =/

[Hillbilly]

she sounds scared....just give her the room she needs.

[tufty]

fear of her own feelings - she needs to know ur gonna be there no matter how much time it takes - she will probably be all warm and snuggly in a couple of days. Get used to her blowing hot and cold - she will soon learn to trust you and her reactions will stop.

[Teh_wulf]

Thanks guys. But i think we have just ended it, Sorry to waste your time

[tufty]

eh? how did that happen?

sheesh i turn my back for a moment and all hell breaks lose!

[Teh_wulf]

I have no idea, I am as confused as you all. Just happend all of a sudden. Probably another guy.

*depression kicks in* And i really liked her. A ****ing hell of a lot (sorry about language).

[tufty]

awwwww i am sorry

[Teh_wulf]

It's alright, Thanks for you help though guys. Sorry i wasted y'all time =/