LONG STORY, ill try to make it interesting lol.
alright, first off i already know what im going to do, just ask her on a date(no better way to find out than asking her right?), but i feel like seeing yalls opinions. and i figure things out better when i type em out, it helps me view things in a non-emotionally attached way.
Setting: First week of my freshman year, im excited its the last class of my Monday. I sit the commons area waiting for class to start, studying, i see a cute/atheltic girl on the other side, and think damn. Some guy walks up to her and asks if the seat is takin and starts chattin with her. Class is bout to start I sit down back of row, the girl(yep, in my class) walks in and sits down two rows to the left, back of row. I dont pay much attention at this point, just some cute girl in my class. We do some "get to know each other thing"
Story:
Chapter 1
That Wednesday im sitting in the commons area, she sits at a bench near me(coinesedence mostly, the only bench open was the one near where she sat last time, shes at the same one as Monday). Someone in the class comes up and asks her if she has the Syllabus for class(quiz over it) she says ya and he starts reading it. Im over here studying, and she says to me" So you bike huh?"(that was my "what i did over the summer" for the getting to know your classmates). I say yep, did about 200 miles a week at 17-20 mph. Shes like awesome i bike to, so we start talking about biking for bout 45 mins then class starts. I ask for her number at the end of class and say we should go for a bike ride sometime, she says thats cool shed like that(i think she said she didnt have her road bike down here at the time, but i didnt really catch it). I call her that weekend and ask if she wants to go for a ride, shes says she doesnt have her road bike, just her mountain bike. Im like dang, alright thats cool, have fun with the rest of your saturday
Emotions of Chapter 1: still just at the point of damn, cute girl, who rides bikes? AMAZING! not really into her besides like lets go party.
Chapter 2
Setting: 3 weeks into the semester, im working out, getting buff , still studying and sitting in commons/class/RAC(recreational activities center, free athletics center for students)
time goes on, we chat in the commons area whenever she is there, ill put my books up and chat with her about stuff(im there everyday studying, dont wanna waste gas going home for 1 hour when i could jsut study). One day in class i ask her if shes going to the RAC, i get a yeps, i ask her if she wants to run, she says sure. Im a the RAC working out, waiting til 6PM for her to get off class and run. I chat with a friend there, i see her, and i think she sees me but she walks up stairs to the track. I finish my set(bout 7 minsutes) and walk upstairs, see her, and say hi. we chat and walk around the track. After liek 10 minutes, i ask her if shes ready to run, she says shes already ran and that she go find a friend so i can run. I was confused to say the least. so i run and leave.
Chapter 2 emotions: im starting to like her at this point, not just a cute girl in my class, a potential now.
Chapter 3
Setting: class(laugh, it got canceled like every day in this chapter lol)/RAC, weather is starting to get cloudy(metaphor, can you guess?)
So we dont that week(i dont talk to her til Wednesday), but have a 5K run for extra credit in class that saturday, i ask her if shes running it, she says yep and i say awesome. Saturday comes around i dont see her, I run the go home. I text her and ask her if she changed her mind bout the run, shes says she had to go home for the weekend, i say awh, what happened? she never replies. That monday in the commons area we talk, i ask her what happened, she says shes got in an accident on her bike and screwed her shoulder up that thursday after i texted her(irony i know), so im like wow that sucks, does it feel better? she says a little its still sore. So the next Monday(we dont have class) I aske her if shes wants to play some racketball, she says shed like to, we get together and start playin, we have fun, laugh at the how bad we are when we try to hit the ball. We leave, she says it was fun we should do it again sometime, i say definitely. Dont talk to her til next Wednesday.
Emotions: really like her now, tryin to get to know her.
CHapter 4
Setting: its gettingcloudy outside, Im questioning the weather now/RAC/softball fields(she hasnt showed up i nthe commons area at all since bout the fourth week, now in 6th week)
The next Wednesday we meet at the RAC, chat there, ask her if she wants to go for a run, she says she has a softball game then she can, so i say thats cool, i may come watch that so i dont have to go home for 2 hours. She says thats cool, we go through the RAC obstacle course in class, we chat, she stands by me at everything. I go the the softball game, i watch the game ends, i wait for her to get out of the dugout, and she kinda walks by like she doesnt see me in the stands(i was the only one there lol it was intrameral), i get down and wait for her, she kinda walks by me like she doesnt see me, then turns a little and hey. we talk, someone calls me I answer i get off, and shes like have a good day, i say you dont feel like running, she says nah im to tired and presumes to drive away. Monday in class is a RAC tour, i sit down at a table by her and try to talk but alot of people sit at her table and start talkin to her, so i back off and let em talk. the tour starts she walks with me talks with me, and the tour is at the pool. she asks if i wanna go swimmin later(she had a nervous sound to her voice) and i say sure thing, she says she has a baseball game at 6PM and i should come watch that before we swim. So at around 3PM she asks me if i wanna get something to eat with her and some friends after the game before we go swimming. i go, the game is canceled, i see her pulling out, she turns around and tells me its canceled, but they are eating at *insert name*. I head over there meet em. Im kinda quiet, dont talk much around people i dont know, especially big groups of people i dont know. She asks me a few questions tryin to get me into the convo i answer i stay in the convo for a bit then fade out. We check out of restaurant, she say ill meet ya at the RAC. i go bathroom and head to car and she her standing with her friends chatting. I go to the RAC, and wait for bout 10 mins. she texts me sayin shes on her way, i say cool. 10 mins later she says im almsot there, 3-4 mins later she shows up, we change and head to the pool. we swim, chat for a bit, swim a little, chat bout how hard swimming is , swim and chat. We get tired so we head out, i ask her if shes doin anything this weekend, she says shes goin home, i say cool, give me a call if you stay in town. she doesnt call(she went home).
emotions: starting to doubt if shes into me.
Chapter 5:The End?
Since the swim we really havnt talked much, never in groups in class, hasnt been in the commons area, i texted her askin bout some homework once, she tells me what it is, she ends convo. i walk into class and either nod at her or say hi and thats bout the end of convo. She will ask me a question I answer, ask her something, she answers but in a short manner(ending the convo) she joins in on the class discussion. She asked me what my project topic was, i told her, but kept it short. SO in all, its been a hey, how are yo, good, how are you, good type of thing.
Emotions: Im starting to give up, thinkin shes was njust being nice to me.
Hypothesis:
-Im thinking she may be testing me, or is shy and getting afraid to talk to me
-Im the one at fault and creating awkward situations, I may be letting my clouded judgement that she doesnt like me make me stop talkin to her and shes thinkin im not interested.
-Im being a pussy(sorry for language)