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Thread: How long do you wait before you have or talk about it.

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    How long do you wait before you have or talk about it.

    Obviously it depends on the person i guess.

    But ive been in a Relationship before but it was with a Friend so things go hot very quick if you get my drift.

    But the new women in my life ive been going out with for about a month but we have known each other for about 2 months,as we dated before we went into a relationship! There is a 2 years age gap between us me been nearly 20 and she is 18.

    I was woundering if i should mention the subject sex to her and what she is thinking i know it will happen naturally but we haven't really spoken about the subject.

    I know its early days but should i bring the subject up or just wait!

    what are your views on this?

    I keep woundering if she will be thinking the same thing i sure she will eh?

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    Why? I don't get what the point is.

    I prefer to let things happen naturally.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tone
    Why? I don't get what the point is.

    I prefer to let things happen naturally.
    Yeah true i suppose it will just me woundering thats all

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tone
    Why? I don't get what the point is.

    I prefer to let things happen naturally.
    i agree with tone. what's the point in bringing up the subject before you're actually getting round to it? it'll only be embarrassing for both of you.

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    Nope, no point talking about it. Just roll with the punches my friend.
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    ok kewl,thanks all!!

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    Good luck, man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tone
    Good luck, man.
    Cheers,its all is going well between us and after problems with my past relationship it just gets me thinking about stuff!

    Guess im kinda paranoid in someways!!

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    once the nipple makes its apperance , thats when you can talk about sex ... that or until your both comfortable enough to fart around each other .

    but i just go with the flow , or more like set the flow and she follows .

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    don't talk about it. Just some booze and roofies then were getting it on.

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