Ever play this dating game? Kinda scary.

[blackiesharley]

The lady I'm seeing and I agreed to play a game. Here's how it works. we each write down the three things we like MOST about each other as well as the three things we like LEAST about each other. We agreed to be brutally honest, anything goes.

Kinda dangerous but fun don't you think? Like it's been said, don't ask the questions if you can't handle the answers. LOL.

Answers tonight. =:0

[xwfuro]

lmao well that could be risky as hell. if one of your answers is 'one of the things i like least about you is your flat chest' youll probably be in big trouble!!

[Lloyd95]

No win situation; good luck with that though.

[RogerWilco]

No win situation

Yup. Hell, half the time you can't COMPLIMENT a girl without her somehow twisting it around and getting mad. Good luck INSULTING her (even if it's just in this "game") and not having her blow up.

[DutchBoY]

you're threading on very thin ice my friend, and I don't think this will lead to anything good. Never make lists with character traits of a significant other. Cause let me tell you this, once those are out in the open, she won't focus on the positive items, I can tell you that much.

[vashti]

What is the point of telling the three things you DON'T like? Bad idea, my friend.

[Only-virgins]

No.


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[clynn]

Here's my advice, when you have to tell her three things you DON'T like, say things like:

Oh, god = I thought I could come up with something good, you know something that is framed negatively but is actually good. But then they just sound sucky, now that I think about them. Things like:

1. I don't like that I don't see you every minute of the day
2. I don't like that I think about you all the time
3. I don't like not knowing every tiny detail about you, because I'm only just getting to know you

But geeze those sound dorky.

I was trying to use the same strategy one would use when interviewing for a job. Name three things about yourself that are strengths and three that are weaknesses. THen we always say thigns that are weaknesses that are really strengths in disguise (ie: I am overly ambitious, I work too hard, .... OR things that really aren't that bad anyhow ie: I could learn more about xyz computer program).

You're in trouble.

I'd withdraw from this game.

Maybe you could say, I wish you liked fish. Cuz I like to eat fish adn if you did too then we coudl eat it together. Something lame and inconsequential is your only hope.

But not playing is probably best.

[blackiesharley]

OK for the record, we called it off. We each said that we couldn't think of anything negative and the positives are all out there anyway.

Looked good on paper. Don't want to jinx anything, but it's going on!

Very positive night. Blackie's a happy man and there's a happy lady out there too.

[clynn]

Yahooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[XPixiedustX]

yeah... this game sounds risky, like if you feel like you haven't fought in a longgg time, this game woudl be a great way to ease the tension, I've played this before...it wasn't pretty!

[daisy]

That's good way to know each other better!!!

[blackiesharley]

That's good way to know each other better!!!

That's what I thought too. An innocent way to compliment each other without getting too sappy.