Please give advice what to do

[eissenheim]

my problem is this
i very in love with this beautiful girl but
i think she don't like me because i just have the feeling
but i don't know if my feeling is right. I'm dying to have her.
i talk to her every-time but it seems sometimes she likes to talk to me sometimes she doesn't like.
I don't know why?

also i'am hesitating to ask her for a date.
because I'm afraid that she will answer me a big "NO".

please help me what to do the right to stop loving her
or to continue even though i feel that she don't like to be love.

every night and day I'm thinking what is the right thing to do

also I'm thinking about her.

please help me I'm very in love with this girl

[Junket]

You're probably freaking her out by being over emotional, she can sense that.

You should ask her out outright and just get it over with.

[eissenheim]

but she don't know that i love her.
but i don't know if she feels that i love her.

[Junket]

Yeah but you're probably sounding like a overly sensitive, no backbone, way too nice, little boy. Stay there too long and you'll always be like a brother to her.

Grow some balls and ask her the f*ck out.

[eissenheim]

thanks thats a great word of wisdom for me

[janderson83]

Hi, I'm new to this forum, so I wanted to say hi and give you a hand...

If you want to ask her out without getting rejected, don't call it a date.

Instead, ask her to join you for some coffee at a shop or something. Just DON'T call it a date.

But you are going to HAVE to relax. Be confident in yourself. Assume that she likes you.

If she rejects you outright, just brush it off and move on. There are tons of other girls out there.

Some other things to remember:

1. When you are on the date, focus on flirting with her. Don't analyze everything she does, just flirt and have fun.
2. Avoid "friendship topics" like ex relationships, boys she currently likes, etc.
3. Avoid negative topics. Keep it positively focused.
4. Confidence, confidence, confidence.
5. While she is talking, smile, look right into her eyes. If you are sitting, lean into her.
6. Don't give up until she flat out rejects you. Seriously, persistence is sometimes the key.

No go for it! You have nothing to lose. Think about it, even if she says no, you didn't actually LOSE anything. In fact, SHE lost something. She lost the chance to be with a great guy!

J.