No idea what the OP is referring to, but I assume it is something social media related or a similar type of thing.
Sorry, to say this so bluntly folks, but you younger people really need to pull your head out of your asses and stop hiding behind technology all the time.
Forget all that fake digital and tainted forms of communication and just be a real person. Always handle all important things face to face because that is really the only thing that matters.
Life is shorter than you think, so never hold anything back!