so after reading all these guides about dating, or the reviews of these dating books I think the main concept they are trying to get across is to:
1) respect yourself
2) be confident in yourself
3) treat each other equally
a) if you both bend over backwards for each other that works
b) if you both dont bother to help each other at all that works too
c) anywhere in between
4) be yourself
with those guidelines i dont think you can go wrong?
agree?