I have been dating my bf for 11 years and it seems as if he is not even thinking about marriage anytime soon. I feel as if it doesnt take 11yrs to figure out it you really want to be with somone or not. We have been through our ups and downs and there has been a lot to happen in our relationship. We both have cheated on each other and have hurt each other. I have forgivven him and want to move on, but it seems as if he doesnt want to take that next step. He knows that I want to be married and I have told him to not lead me on if he never plans on marrying me. He has even told me that I was better off marrying a stranger if I wanted to get married right now. He says that he cant talk to me, but I feel that he never even listens to what I have to say. He talks to his friends and he seems to take what they say to him versus me. I dont know whether to stay with him or just leave. I dont want to keep dating and he still says he doesnt want to get married a year later. I just dont know if he is really being honest with me. What should I do?