Can any guy who has been in this situation answer this for me. And be totally honest. It will be helpful to some of us. . .
You've been dating a girl for a while but you decide that you want to end this relationship. You tell the girl it's because "you can't commit/be in a serious relationship/etc." Soon after you meet a new girl, get into a relationship with this new girl and are serious with her/proposing to her.
What was it about the first girl that made you want to end the relationship and tell her it's because you're not able to commit?
What was it about the new girl that made you want to commit?