So I've spent a year pining over my ex wife. Some of you know the whole story. Others do not. Over the last two months of e-stalking I had observed what appeared to be a blossoming relationship between my ex-wife and a man we shall simply call Bill. This, naturally, enraged me. I had never taken her off my AIM buddy list and, through this e-stalking, found out his AIM which I promptly added to my buddy list so that I could then observe their cutesy lifestream statuses and further prolong my suffering.
A few days ago I had a relapse and a near complete mental breakdown after seeing pictures on Bill's facebook of the two of them together. In my psychotic rage I made a fake Facebook account and proceeded to send him a calm, well written message complete with a link to the blog I wrote (and linked in my last thread) detailing every last bit of my breakup from Jenn. I didn't really expect a reply and if so, I entirely expected it to be aggressive and antagonistic, demanding I stay out of her life and whatnot.
But I never expected THIS.
He had no idea I ever existed. He had no idea she'd ever been married and the best part? They'd had sex seven years ago at a BBQ (she told me she was a virgin) and reconnected a little over a year and a half ago and began having sex again...while her and I were engaged...while her and I were living together...and all throughout the three months here and I lived together as husband and wife. AND NOW SHE'S PREGNANT AND DEMANDING HE MARRY HER, but she refuses to sign a prenuptial agreement! He asked for proof of my claims which I gladly made sure to forward to him. Pictures of her bridal shower, pictures of us at the wedding, pictures of the annulment I was forced to sign clearly stating that her and I had once been married.
And now he's calling off the wedding and very well may break up with her. He's an intelligent and educated paralegal and if he plays his cards right he "might" even be able to get out of paying child support if he can adequately prove that she deliberately roped him into the whole scenario. But either way he's stuck with her, not me.
And I am now vindicated. I can't even wish to go back to "the way things were" because they had always been a lie. I would just be wishing to go back to a relationship where I was being cheated on quite possibly for the ENTIRE TIME. The thought did cross my mind that the two of them had conspired to write his replies to me but that really doesn't quite fit. Everything he's told me makes perfect sense and explains everything about her that had perplexed me for the past year. All the quirky ways she acted, the odd personal schedule she kept for herself, the way she had to go back to her parents every single weekend and stay until Monday, the secrecy regarding her cellphone and computer, the way she was so quickly and easily able to discard me over such trivial issues. Everything.
And now she may very well end up exactly as I told her she would when she left me. Alone, unloved and a single mother. I come to you all now to declare my victory. It took a year but it was well worth the wait.