Party Girl in the Past...now won't party with me..

[irishfire]

My gf was a 'party-girl'...now that we have met..she wants to settle down and not party anymore...but i love the idea of a 'bad girl'...how do i tell her?

[Junket]

Tell her if she gets lazy and ugly you won't settle down with her.

[irishfire]

kinda was a serious question...i really care for her...but it seems like her past was awesome and she had a blast..but doesn't want to share it with me..odd i know

[Junket]

You guys can't go to parties together?

[irishfire]

not that...she brags about her taking X, and coke...but that she doesn't want to share those experiences with me...

[vashti]

It sounds like she is growing up. If you want to keep her, you should try to keep up.

[Illusional]

whatever you tell her, she'll tell you that she has grown up so when will you?

raverboy

[Raze]

It seems like she has matured a little. She can be a bad girl without taking drugs. Being a party girl doesn't make a girl "bad". A bad girl is more of a term to describe her in terms of sex and physical contact. For instance, she will do things in bed that normal girls wouldn't do or touch you in ways that normal girls won't.

[girl68]

There's a big difference from party girl, bad girl and a girl who takes drugs.

If you want to party with her say so! Easy:
want to hit the club tonight?
my friends want to party you up for it?

If you want her to be a "bad girl" you'll have to specify what exactly it is you want...
drinking?
staying out late?
kinky sex?

If you want a girl who does drugs, well it could be she's done with that phase. Most things like "partying hard" do fade as you grow older, that or you just realize it isn't all that fun (or smart) anymore.

I doubt it has anything to do with not wanting to share these experiences with you, but more that she's grown out of her wild party girl phase. Although... even then a party night can be fun every now and again.