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    Tough Sitiation...

    I'm married to a woman I no longer love. She lives in a different country. The school I want to go to is right in her town. I could live in that country with her and go to the school I want to, and be with the woman I don't love, or I could say "f*ck it" and move within my country and attend a MUCH more expensive school with less education but not living a fake love life. What would you do?

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    ..you could just divorce your wife and go to school where you want?

    I don't see the point in staying with her if you're not happy.

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    You confuse me. Looking at all of your posts, I can't figure out where you are, who you are or who you're with.
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    Gigabitch, I"m still with the same woman as before. I move around a lot that's why. My job requires me to live in many different places and the girl who was my "girlfriend" before is now my wife.

    When we're together, it's fine. But when we are separated, I lose interest and start to look elsewhere.

    EDIT: PsychoPink the school I want to go to is in HER country, I can't be there without her.

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    Why the hell not? Can't you just get a student visa?

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    Yeah but then I can't work while I'm there. She lives in an extremely expensive city

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    Well...that just really effing sucks. Sorry to hear.

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    Is she a resident? If you are married then you should be able to get status so you can work also.
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    Yeah, I was assuming that was why you got married in the first place. What's up with that?
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    Jeez, ADD generation...

    If you only lose interest when you are gone, then it stands to reason you will gain interest if you go back to her. Then, if you don't, you can transfer out to another school.

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