How can I get my boyfriend to take me more seriously? When we have a relationship problem, he doesn't want to talk about it. He'll just try to change the subject and move on.
And it bugs me now that his friend lives with him, so sometimes when we talk on the phone, he talks differently and won't say as much because his friend is around.
I also feel like he sometimes blames me for things. Like say I suggest we hang out at a bar to listen to music - he mentions how he doesn't want to spend money and also says that he never gets to do all of the things he wants to do throughout the day. Meaning, he could have finished what he wanted to do instead of going to the bar with me. Yet, when his friends suggest they all go out to the bar, he seems totally okay with it and doesn't even seem worried about the money situation. I suggest something nice for both of us to do together and he seems to complain about it.
What do you think? What do you think I should do/tell him?