Seen this happen to me and others..whats the deal?

[jenniferx]

Guy A doesnt really pay attention to me, never tried to go after me or seemed interested. But then for some reason he'll see me as a romantic interest and start being really nice and attention giving.

Guy B same thing except we were friends before but I was putting in more effort into the friendship

Is it because he thinks he's going to "get some"? Like if I show an interest...being the spark of romantic interest or whatever...or that he never thought about it until then, OR is someone liking you just cause you like them.



I mean this to be a very general question because its happened to me and people I know a few times, maybe i'm being oblivious, but i don't feel like i do this ....so what happens does this mean youve done this or experienced .....thanks

[lahnnabell]

Sounds like they're just into playing games. They obviously haven't had much or any experience with serious relationships or they would realize that these types of games can be confusing, frustrating, and/or hurtful.

You can either keep in touch with them and continue to let them d*ck you around, or you can level up and forget them.

[fnatic]

guy a might be nervous and finally stepped up to the plate

guy b might be the same the same thing and thought you were fine with it since you started it.

but the better question would be how do you feel about them

[Lite]

Guy A could definitely be shy.
Guy B might be nervous that guy A is making a play, and doesn't want him to have it.