females perspective on fuped situation

[brycey]

ok girl i know has got back with guy cause of poor childhood, the guys mother abbandond him and attempted suicide in front of him.
hes also a drug dealer who cant read or write and dosent wont to work, hes threanted her and also had her attacked hes also tryed to kill his father.

the girl in qusteion i used to date until this guy came back on the scene and gave her a sob story and then they hooked back up
just looking for a female persective thank you

[smackie9]

You are not the one that is a loser here, she is. Don't lower your standards to be with someone like her. You deserve better.

[fish-face]

Let her go. I know that is easier said than done, but she is hooked up with some people who are really messed up and they have a way of being emotional vampires and NEVER go away as long as they can convince her to let them back in her life. As another poster said, you can do better. Find an available lady without all the drama.

[brycey]

Thank you for youre input I was actually doing quite well and had her out of my mind till last night then i started asking myself why she would get back with him after everything hes done to her. I just hope she she dosent stick around when he starts all of his bs again but then again as you said he will probaly never go away as long as he can make her feel sorry for him, she says she dosent love him and that shes doing this to try and help his family as well because they have also been at her telling her that he was doing so well when they where together and that he was a better person when they were together.

Ah sorry about this just cant help thinking why cause shes smart yet she still lets this happen to her, is it just emotion her feeling sorry for him or is it fear incase he dose something stupid to himself or her