Is after couple times hanging out with a girl enough to ask her out?

[billy1995fifa]

Hi

I just curious and going to meet girls in the summer.

Is after couple times hanging out with a girl enough to ask her out?

Is asking a girl out means that we become girlfriend and boyfriend unofficially? because my dad told me this.

What's the difference between going out and dating??

[smackie9]

You can ask a girl out after 2 mins of conversation....go getter tiger!

NO! going out on dates means you like them and want to test them out to see if they are GF material.....kinda like a job interview. If all the boxes are ticked off on what you are looking for, then you ask them to be exclusive.

[smackie9]

Just because you ask someone out on a date doesn't obligate you to be committed to them. You can go out on dates with others as long as you are not "seeing" someone more seriously. You can ask a girl for each day of the week if you so desire.

[searock]

Smackie is correct: you can ask a girl out on a date even after 2 minutes of conversation. However, I don't agree with dating more people at the same time: for some cultures it's normal, for others (like mine) only jerks date multiple persons at a time. You should make sure it's an OK thing to do in your culture, before you do it and find yourself not taken seriously.

Dating one person at a time doesn't mean that you are boyfriend/girlfriend. You are boyfriend/girlfriend when you decide to become an "official" couple, which generally happens when the both of you agree on wanting to be together for a long time (you see a future together).

How old are you? I think this should be in the "Teenage love forum" ...

[Lord Darkshire]

He's in France and they are much more freer with multiple dating, so he is good to go.

[searock]

I wouldn't be too sure about that. I don't think it's a given like it is in the USA or Canada, I think if someone wants to date more than one person at a time, he/she should tell the other persons and let them decide if it's something they are comfortable with. It's not that he can't do it because of some old fashioned religious/moral code, it's that he shouldn't take for granted that everybody would be OK with it.