I need help in the bedroom

[sno]

Ok so I have had sex before but I basically the position is always the same missionary and I just lay there lol I dnt know what to do. I want to be more active but i just dnt know how to become more active. I guess you could say I am shy but that is not really the problem I can be completely comfortable with the guy but it is another story when it comes to the bedroom. It is just I dnt know what to do. Does anyone have any tips for me?? I have a big sex drive I like it but I feel like it is disappointing because I start it and never really finish it I make them do all the work.

[lhn]

I'm assuming you're a female?

Hop on top. Bounce up and down a little. Run your body up and down against his and make some noise. Enjoy yourself and show a little freak. Everrrrrrryone likes a little freak

[mrz16]

ye freak is gooooooood!

[girl68]

Oh my, get on your knees suck his dick standing up, lay him on hi tummy sit on his ass and rub him. Sit on him while he's laying on his back and give him a handjob. Sit on his dick bump and grind. Turn your ass around and invite him to screw you 'doggy style'. Get him to the shower bend over and let him do you.

Get creative!

[Gigabitch]

Yes, the shower! You can have so much fun in the shower.

I suspect you just haven't found the right guy yet. Are the guys you're sleeping with encouraging you to have more fun? If they're pretty inexperienced as well, they might get a little freaked out and insecure if you appear to have more knowledge than they do (don't worry- guys grow out of this).

[Chupacabras]

There's nothing wrong with getting tips from porn. There's plenty of free stuff on the web, and a fair amount of it's couple oriented so shouldn't gross you out.

Guys do almost all of the work normally, you just need to learn the correct wiggles and that comes with experience.

[girl68]

Man are women that you lay really that lazy. I know when I'm getting jiggy with it. I'm doing LOTS of "work" (the best "work" I've ever had to do might I add). I bounce, I squeeze, I make sounds, I wiggle, I clench my awesome vag muscules, I counter balance- you name it I'm game.

My men will never claim that they do most of the work- never.

[vashti]

Try asking him to direct you. Only do this with someone you trust immensely not to make you feel degraded.

[Doc Durian]

Go down on him for a minute or two, then give yourself to him doggy style for a couple of minutes... pash on for a bit, then lead his lips to your inner thighs and bury his face in it for a couple of minutes, pull him up onto you and let him titty screw you while you lap at his cock head. Get on your side, throw your leg up a little like a pair of half opened scissors and bring him in with his knees straddling your other leg along the sheets. Rub yourself a bit, rub his nads for a bit, then settle on one of the above things which made the pair of you make the most noise together.

Do that position or act until you both climax. If one does before the other gets to, pick another position or act to let the other have a bit of fun.

[madhatter]

If you're comfortable being a dead fish you should roll with it. Anyone can write out a sex scene so my advice would be to do it as it comes naturally. Remember to have fun and don't be so shy as to be afraid to laugh at yourself. Good luck!

[Doc Durian]

Wait a minute... be a dead fish?

She's already admitted that she's been very traditional and wants to try new things.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with Missionary style. Some of my best work has been with the old Mish.

However, she wants to mix it up and is looking for suggestions. Maybe my suggestions aren't her cup of tea.. That's cool. It takes all sorts.

Going with the flow is cool... assuming that one has an idea what the flow could be, whether already practiced or visualized/fantasized.

There are literally hundreds of positions, thousands of deviancies... and no amount of intimate one-off's in the weird random experimentation veins.

We're just trying to get her collective juices flowing on this... food for frisky thought.

To lay a foot on the either side of old Missionary long enough to see the various flavours of Sexually Intimate Skittle-tries.

Help her visualize something she could later do, "naturally" or as close to as possible without having done so before.

[madhatter]

i wasn't coming at you doc. My bad. I'm just saying if the shyness is lost the playfulness and experimentation will be easier to attain. Besides it's all supposed to be enjoyable - regardless of the position.

[dewilliams2]

Oh my, get on your knees suck his dick standing up, lay him on hi tummy sit on his ass and rub him. Sit on him while he's laying on his back and give him a handjob. Sit on his dick bump and grind. Turn your ass around and invite him to screw you 'doggy style'. Get him to the shower bend over and let him do you.

Get creative!

I'd listen to her...all of that sounds good....I couldn't have said it any better....seriously don't be afraid to take some initiative and do what you wanta do...trust me a guy isn't gonna tell you your nasty or anything...well they might but its in a good way....guys like mixing it up and we will do any disgusting thing to you that you will let us because we are pervs and can't help it.

[Chupacabras]

Whatever you say, Girl. I've slept with considerably more women than you have and guarantee you wouldn't be doing most of the work, in any position.

[girl68]

Whatever you say, Girl. I've slept with considerably more women than you have and guarantee you wouldn't be doing most of the work, in any position.

You have never slept with me. You think you work harder with her on top. Trust me I'm a girl and I know I'm doing more work 10 fold in at LEAST that position.