I've been in the no contact phase with my ex for about almost 2 weeks, she has initiated contact with me a few times, but I've been standoffish and pleasant at the same time, so I can appear as the "cool detached ex" that is doing well. She has told me she missed me and I'm on her mind and then on another time she was just asking how my weekend is going. The reason we aren't together is due to a combination of reasons.
Here is my question: In trying to get my ex back, do I need to reinitiate contact again at some point to respark the attraction? Or do I just wait for her to say "lets talk, lets hang out, lets be together" I think I need to somehow make her want me again and that happens with attraction.
What is the best approach??
Thank you!