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    is flirting with other girls considered cheating on gf?

    if you have a gf, and you are also talking to a few other girls and sending love letters to them, is that considered cheating? Let's say you are just sending love emails to them but there has been no physical contact. is that cheating?

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    Yes because you are emotionally cheating on her.

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    yes it is cheating why not write your gf a love email instead
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    yep you're cheating.

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    Lemme break it down:

    If you're having ANY kind of romantical feelings, longing, desire or want for another person that you are not with, you are emotionally cheating. If you are sending ANY kind of signs to another that you are romantically inclined towards them, and not your partner, physical/none physical, you are cheating.
    How hard is it, really.
    You know what you're doing. Don't try and be all technical about it.

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    What? You mean we can't try to justify our straying eyes/hands?

    And here I though having a penis ment I didn't have to commit to anything.
    I want a refund.

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    I don't "get" this emotional cheating thing that some posters are talking about - I think it's bullshit, because part of human nature is to feel attraction - it's purely instinctual to be attracted to someone who is found to be beautiful, and naturally a desire, no matter its size, to be with them. Anyone who says they don't do this when they are with someone is denying it. You cannot ignore a subconscious process that you do not have any control over.

    Cheating is when you make an effort, any effort to try to have someone else. Be honest with yourself, man. Yeah, writing "love letters" or expressing any kind of attraction for another person, to another person is cheating!

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    Quote Originally Posted by doppelgaenger View Post
    I don't "get" this emotional cheating thing that some posters are talking about - I think it's bullshit, because part of human nature is to feel attraction - it's purely instinctual to be attracted to someone who is found to be beautiful, and naturally a desire, no matter its size, to be with them. Anyone who says they don't do this when they are with someone is denying it. You cannot ignore a subconscious process that you do not have any control over.

    Cheating is when you make an effort, any effort to try to have someone else. Be honest with yourself, man. Yeah, writing "love letters" or expressing any kind of attraction for another person, to another person is cheating!
    and writing love letters?
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    What now, Golubitsa?

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    Golubka it is
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    eto golubka po syerbskomu yazyku, mala sladka.

    a chto ty oznachayesh??
    Last edited by doppelgaenger; 14-12-10 at 09:01 AM.

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    Seriously you are cheating, and those who know you have a gf but flirts with you are Bitches

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kama View Post
    Having sex with other than one's girlfriend is one thing but being emotionally attached to other women than one's girlfriend is cheating. Sometimes sex is a biological need and at times one has to fulfill the desire. I know I will be commented by some posters here but it happens. When men and women come in contact with each other they are bound to have sex under certain circumstances

    Sex is that primal instinct, I mean it has been coded into our DNA since our origins. Being emotionally attached to someone other than our mate is a strictly human thing. Can it therfore be considered as bad if not worse?
    So i threw you the obvious, to see what occurs behind the eyes of a fallen angel, eyes of a tragedy.
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    ^^^ lolmyfückinassoff

    first of all, sex aka sexual intercourse is a type of behavior, not a "primal instinct" lulz
    coded in our dna since our origins? wtf are you smoking? did you sleep your way through grade school science?
    lastly, monogamy is a choice, not a "human thing"

    save the philosophical discussion for the grownups, dude.

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    It's definitely cheating - I'm sure your poor GF would consider it as such. Why not ask her and find out?

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