No noise while having sex

[MsIrishView]

I don't really make to much noise while I am having sex. Mostly breathing and a few oh's. Which never get very loud. This is a problem for my partner. Part of me feels like I am holding back simply because I dont know what to say. In addition to the fact he likes dirty talk which doesnt bother me but again I dont know what to say. Any suggestions?

[vashti]

I don't know about the dirty talk (I have never been able to do it myself, and I find it distracting when my partner does it), but you don't have to actually SAY anything to make noise.

[Sonrisa]

yeah, i don't dirty talk either but many times during i tend to say something that we'd both burst out laughing from

[misombra]

tell him to do you better.

[Gratedwasabi]

I don't really make to much noise while I am having sex. Mostly breathing and a few oh's. Which never get very loud. This is a problem for my partner. Part of me feels like I am holding back simply because I dont know what to say. In addition to the fact he likes dirty talk which doesnt bother me but again I dont know what to say. Any suggestions?

I prefer quieter women to loud ones. Loud women just annoy me. I seriously sometimes just kiss them or "playfully" put my hand on their neck to get them to shut up. Or turn them over and bury their face in the pillow when they get loud. HAHAHAH.

Dirty talk is easy. Just forget your inhibitions and say whatever comes to me.

[MrCoffee]

I don't really make to much noise while I am having sex. Mostly breathing and a few oh's. Which never get very loud. This is a problem for my partner. Part of me feels like I am holding back simply because I dont know what to say. In addition to the fact he likes dirty talk which doesnt bother me but again I dont know what to say. Any suggestions?

My wife has the same problem with me; growing up in a house with 5 other people, I learned early on to keep quiet whilst indulging in any solo pleasures. This tendancy to not vocalise just carried forward into my relationships.

As far as dirty talk goes, is it a case of you're thinking it but would feel silly/awkward saying it or is it something you're really not bothered about? The former can be remedied/enabled whereas the latter suggests that talking dirty just isn't you.

[Cao Pi]

I used to have to cover my ex's mouth while I plowed her. She was so loud especially with others in the house.

[doppelgaenger]

I don't like screamers or porn star moaning. It's annoying and I don't want everyone in my apartment complex to know I'm having a fück.
Heavy breathing and some quiet moaning are really a turn on, but only if they are believable. Otherwise, I'd rather she uses her mouth for something else.

[Raze]

I like moaning. It turns me on.

[doppelgaenger]

Moaning reminds me of zombies, and it puts me in apocalyptic survival mode.

[nims]

If you feel you are holding back, it seems silly and you will feel very foolish at first, but you COULD practice. I mean, don't do or say what you're not comfortable with. But experiment by yourself, see where you are willing to go.

My last gf was very vocal and loudl. I often had to cover her mouth with a hand or pillow while we were going at it during the day. She would say things like "Oh my god" and "Oh yes, f*** me like that" etc. I can give more examples if you need hahaa.. I never thought I was a fan of dirty talk, but the way she did it turned me on because I knew she is loving it and going out of her mind with pleasure. Facial expressions help, too.

Later I learned that she wanted me to talk more dirty to her, but it was more than I was comfortable with. She wanted me to call her names, like slut, bit**, whore, dirty, etc. It took me by surprise. I tried it, but it didn't feel right so I didn't do it anymore. She realllly got into it when I did it, but I couldn't get into. Even when we had "angry sex" it was challenging. Luckily she didn't pressure me about it after.

[Gratedwasabi]

I don't like screamers or porn star moaning. It's annoying and I don't want everyone in my apartment complex to know I'm having a fück.
Heavy breathing and some quiet moaning are really a turn on, but only if they are believable. Otherwise, I'd rather she uses her mouth for something else.

Seriously, it's like "okay, look, I actually LIVE HERE. Shut up."

I'm much more a fan of getting the reaction via body language. A girl shuddering under (or on top!) of me with her eyes just rolling up a little is ****ing amazing. Sound is optional and loud sound is not encouraged.

Now, I DO love some good dirty talk. Not ALWAYS, though, but maybe every other time a nice pin her down and tell her what a dirty .... she is and make her beg for it. Yeah, that makes me happy.

[Raze]

Moaning reminds me of zombies, and it puts me in apocalyptic survival mode.

I guess you don't like being eaten alive.

[vashti]

Seriously, it's like "okay, look, I actually LIVE HERE. Shut up."

I'm much more a fan of getting the reaction via body language. A girl shuddering under (or on top!) of me with her eyes just rolling up a little is ****ing amazing. Sound is optional and loud sound is not encouraged.

Now, I DO love some good dirty talk. Not ALWAYS, though, but maybe every other time a nice pin her down and tell her what a dirty .... she is and make her beg for it. Yeah, that makes me happy.

What is it with men and dirty talk? Do they expect us to reciprocate? I mean, I don't care if THEY do it, but I don't want to. Is that bad? (For the record, I am pretty sure I make it clear when I am enjoying myself without acting like a porn star.)

[Raze]

Am I seriously the only guy here who likes loud moaning from a girl when it comes to sex?