Totally Heartbroken

**tav0681** · 12-11-11, 05:13 AM

I've been dating this guy for the past 2 months. We first started off flirting and were really sexaully attracted to each other. He lived about 2 hours away, so we usually met on Fridays and spent the entire weekend together, every weekend! So pretty much, we were just having sex and having fun. But we started to talk and text everyday-"goodmorning", "how is your day going?" "what are you doing?" " I miss you" kind of things. One weekend, we both admitted things were getting a bit more serious than expected. I even woke up and caught him playing in my hair, starring at me! It was sweet. I even heard him talk to his brother on the phone while I pretended to be in the bathroom about how he think he's in love and she's so sweet. Our only weekend apart was coming up and we both seemed down. He went to a football game in another city.

The night before he planned to go, we talked all nigt and he said that he would miss me and that would I consider possibly moving there with him after I'm done with school! Anyway the next morning, I get a call from his phone. I playfully answer,"Hey Sweetie!" , but on the other end was not his voice! The voice was that of a woman telling me she was his wife!! My hands began to shake and I was lost for words. She said that she had already called 6 other girls and just wanted to know what was going on because she has been reading our texts. She seemed extremely hurt! I was so nervous and ashamed. She told me that she had just moved her stuff back into their house while he was gone and that they were separated, but she decided to come home so they could work things out. She said that he left the phone there and saw where he had gotten a new phone. I received a call later that day from a number unknown to me, but I didn't answer. I haven't heard from him since. He's a loser, but I'm still really hurt.

**Benni** · 12-11-11, 05:30 AM

Wow! What a jolt that must have been with no warning whatsoever! I'm sorry this happened to you.

Move on, girl. You can find someone much better than him.

**Saya** · 12-11-11, 05:39 AM

Gosh that is awful.... I'm so sorry that this happened to you.
I agree, try to move on since you can find someone way better than him.

**IndiReloaded** · 12-11-11, 09:05 AM

You didn't know, don't blame yourself. Be grateful you dodged a bullet. Imagine how it must feel to be his wife??

**Dune** · 12-11-11, 11:29 AM

That's terrible. Sorry to hear. It really isn't your fault so don't blame yourself. You have to move on. What else can you do? Is it some sick joke or something? Jeez..

**smackie9** · 12-11-11, 04:23 PM

It will be ok hun....if it's any consolation, the wife is the one who is the fool here....she's the one that is taking him back.

**The Break** · 06-01-12, 10:54 PM

Hey there love, I can only imagine of how it feels so I'm maybe not the best person to tell you what to do ... But, I think you should move on and find the one who will love you for who you are and that you'll love as much as he does ... I hope you'll be ok, and even if we don't know eachother, I'm still here for you love.