need a bit of help

[con7876]

ok I met this girl not long ago so we have been talking everyday pretty much. we get along good but if sometimes I dont text her when I get home, she feels that I get mad her. I always tell her, im never mad at you. when I got home from work,I did fall asleep fast which is once in a while since i get home so late. I work as a chef so my hours and job speaks for itself even thursday when we talked she thought I was mad with her. I even told her the night before I'm going to be away from home that day. I was running errands for my grandmother while I was visiting her and taking care of stuff when I get home. I just don't understand how can this stop happening I have done nothing wrong or have I??

[dickriculous]

ok I met this girl not long ago


if sometimes I dont text her when I get home, she feels that I get mad her

Infatuation. It makes people kinda crazy sometimes.

Either it will pass or it will get worse...depends on whether she has issues or not and we don't have enough information to draw either conclusion.

Might also depend on how old ya'll are. If she's late teens/early twenties then she might change, this tends to happen to the inexperienced. If she's 40 then it's like 95% that what you see is what you're more or less always going to get.

[basilandthyme]

You need to set some new parameters with her. If you are regularly too tired to talk after work, then make an agreement that you won't talk after work. Or make an agreement that you will talk if you're awake but not if you're exhausted. Part of that agreement involves her accepting that it's a matter of practicality and it's not that you're mad at her.

I too am wondering how old she is. This is not unexpected behaviour for an insecure teenage girl. But a grown woman should be able to talk things like this through and find as solution (as above) without getting all insecure and making it about her.

[christiana]

I am Katherine from United States Texas, i want to
share a testimony of my life to every one. i was married to my
husband, i love him so much we have been
married for 9 years now with two kids. when he went for a
vacation to France he meant a lady called Clara whom charm
him with her beauty, he told me that he is no longer
interested in the marriage any more. I was so confuse and
seeking for help, i don't know what to do until I met my friend
Miss Corte and told her about my problem. she told me not to
worry about it that she had a similar problem
before and introduce me to a man called Prophet Jack who cast
a spell on her ex and bring him back to
her after 3days. Miss Corte ask me to contact Prophet Jack. I
contacted him to help me bring back my husband and he ask
me not to worry about it that
the gods of his fore-fathers will fight for me. He told me by
three days he will re-unite me and my husband together. After
three day my husband called and told me he is coming back
to sought
out things with me, I was surprise when I saw him and he
started crying for forgiveness and that he never knew what
came upon him that he will never leave me again or the kids.
it was the spell that was cast on him that was working on
him. Right now I am the happiest woman on earth for what
this great spell caster did for me and my husband, you can
contact Prophet Jack on this prophetjackspellcaster@gm/ai/l./com for any problem.

[christiana]

I am Katherine from United States Texas, i want to
share a testimony of my life to every one. i was married to my
husband, i love him so much we have been
married for 9 years now with two kids. when he went for a
vacation to France he meant a lady called Clara whom charm
him with her beauty, he told me that he is no longer
interested in the marriage any more. I was so confuse and
seeking for help, i don't know what to do until I met my friend
Miss Corte and told her about my problem. she told me not to
worry about it that she had a similar problem
before and introduce me to a man called Prophet Jack who cast
a spell on her ex and bring him back to
her after 3days. Miss Corte ask me to contact Prophet Jack. I
contacted him to help me bring back my husband and he ask
me not to worry about it that
the gods of his fore-fathers will fight for me. He told me by
three days he will re-unite me and my husband together. After
three day my husband called and told me he is coming back
to sought
out things with me, I was surprise when I saw him and he
started crying for forgiveness and that he never knew what
came upon him that he will never leave me again or the kids.
it was the spell that was cast on him that was working on
him. Right now I am the happiest woman on earth for what
this great spell caster did for me and my husband, you can
contact Prophet Jack on this prophetjackspellcaster@gm/ai/l./com for any problem.

[con7876]

You need to set some new parameters with her. If you are regularly too tired to talk after work, then make an agreement that you won't talk after work. Or make an agreement that you will talk if you're awake but not if you're exhausted. Part of that agreement involves her accepting that it's a matter of practicality and it's not that you're mad at her.

I too am wondering how old she is. This is not unexpected behaviour for an insecure teenage girl. But a grown woman should be able to talk things like this through and find as solution (as above) without getting all insecure and making it about her.

you are absolutly right about that 100%. she is 29 she's not living on her own. she is still at home as far as I know. im 39 so say thats a 10 year difference. im not making a big leap towards her Im still getting to know her before I make any leaps.

Infatuation. It makes people kinda crazy sometimes.

Either it will pass or it will get worse...depends on whether she has issues or not and we don't have enough information to draw either conclusion.

Might also depend on how old ya'll are. If she's late teens/early twenties then she might change, this tends to happen to the inexperienced. If she's 40 then it's like 95% that what you see is what you're more or less always going to get.

def not extremely young as I was telling basil and thyme but Im trying to patient but we'll see how it flows