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    Another update

    Hey everyone. Just posted to let everyone know that I've been on a few more dates and almost consider her my GF. I have no idea how you consider someone your BF/GF but it seems that we are almost there.

    I've started to open up now and we've had a few very nice kisses and have cuddled up with her onher sofa. We've got alot in common and I'm enjoying my time.

    Just a quick question. How do you know your a 'couple' because if we are with each other at some sort of get together I dont want to make a joke of myself and introduce her as my GF when she thinks otherwise.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Steve34
    Just a quick question. How do you know your a 'couple' because if we are with each other at some sort of get together I dont want to make a joke of myself and introduce her as my GF when she thinks otherwise.
    You know, that's really funny; I was just asking myself the same question the other day. I guess just sit back and wait fo her to introduce you as her boyfriend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zarathu View Post
    You know, that's really funny; I was just asking myself the same question the other day. I guess just sit back and wait fo her to introduce you as her boyfriend.
    what if she's wondering the same thing, and is waiting for you to say it?

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    Steve, it's time to have that conversation. It's a really sweet moment in a relationship, so you should look forward to it. Just tell her something like, "I think of you as my girlfriend and I hope you do too" after a nice kiss.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch
    Just tell her something like, "I think of you as my girlfriend and I hope you do too" after a nice kiss.
    Uhhh... If you want him to sound like a corny pussy, yeah!

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    Tell her you want to make an exclusivity contract.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zarathu View Post
    Uhhh... If you want him to sound like a corny pussy, yeah!

    Are you taking lessons from Cybog? No flowers for you.

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    Send her an email that says "Reply with yes or no in the subject line".

    God forbid you had to have an actual adult conversation discussing your life and your relationship!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    Are you taking lessons from Cybog? No flowers for you.
    I'm just being realistic.

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    Just seems like something werid to say.. "Do you consider me your BF" I could wait for her to say something but like someone else said what if shes thinking the same thing.

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    Or, it's possible that she's been thinking you're her boyfriend this entire time and would think "oh God!" if you asked her.

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    HAHA, very true. I'll just try to bring it up somehow when I see her tommorow.

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    Just tell her you aren't planning on seeing any other girls for now, and ask if she will do the same.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    Just tell her you aren't planning on seeing any other girls for now, and ask if she will do the same.
    Bad. This could mean "lol ima git attached" which could be a bad idea this early.

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    Isn't that what he wants?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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