Does a guy constantly need to be a mystery and a challenge?

[Zeen]

Just asking, as my experience is that girls prefer guys who doesn't seem interested in them, or who doesn't tell much about themselves, maintaining an air of mystery and a challenge to them. The second you try to be nice, friendly and forthcoming or show signs that you like them, many girls drop you instantly, lose interest or simply shy away...

What's your experience with this?

[clynn]

If I like him, I like him.

If I don't, I don't.

The games don't intrigue me.

That being said, needy/clingy doesn't do it for me either.

And I get kinda shy with guys and intimacy and emotions so sometimes some pacing is nice, to allow me to catch up.

My two cents.

[misombra]

no women like nice, friendly guys. they just don't want to be rushed into anything or pushed or smothered. if you act just like you want to get to know her and be yourself then you can get any woman you want. if you act like a crazy stalker she probably tell you to bug off.