Okay.... I think I messed up. I know clothing is a sensitive subject for women, so I try to be very careful about my views.
My GF is very thin and petite, but she has natural D cups, which are relatively large. When we go out to classy restaurants, she wears very nice low-cut dresses because she knows I like that. When we do regular fun stuff, she dresses very conservatively and seldom shows any skin at all. She buys sexy clothes (and underwear) just for me to enjoy. I appreciate that.
So last weekend she told me she got a super sexy red dress to wear when we go see Phantom next month. I was happy, and was actually very excited. This morning she sent me a picture of that red sexy dress. It was very revealing....almost too revealing. She sensed that I was a bit shocked, so she asked if I felt uncomfortable about her wearing it. I told her I love the dress, and that she would look gorgeous in it. It was more revealing than I had expected. Then she got sad....and I spent the next several minutes trying to redo and explain. Ugh.... I wish I had kept my mouth shut.
She said she would be wearing a shawl over it, and much would be covered. She would even alter the front to make it less revealing if I prefer. I felt really bad about what I said. Why should I feel insecure about my woman looking sexy for me in public? I feel like Mel Gibson's insane ass. I apologized, but I think she is still sad. Damn I don't know what I could have done differently..... I always joke about having to poke other men's eyes out. Maybe deep inside I really want to?
Ladies: any thoughts?