Protect her at all cost?

[PowerGrid]

I am a college student and run a small cafe on the campus, one of my friends works there as the assistant manager at the cafe. One day i come to clock in and he tells me theres a new girl on staff and he tells me shes going to be his. I pay no attention to his sayings and continue on with the day. I finally meet this girl and she is the shyest little thing ive ever seen. Weeks go by and i listen to my friend talk about the techniques he been using on her from a book called "the Game" secrets of the pickup artist. I have no interest in dating this girl, but i have heard what is in this book and i borrowed the book from a friend to see what it was really about. Not even half way through i thought that this girl didnt deserve to be treated like that.

My so called friend had been using degradation to lower her self esteem making fun of her and making her his puppet. Ive seen it happen in front of me and the way he talks about her behind her back, i cant stand it. The sad thing is i think she is falling for him.

You have to understand this girl has a heart of gold and this mans techniques are working. I know this man, i know he has a small perspective on women and views them as targets at least thats what he tells me. What do i do? I have known her for 6 months now but i dont think i know her well enough to step infront and protect her from this fraternity boy, but i cant even speak when hes around her and me at the same time,

My father always said take care of those close to you,
my friends are my family and i wont see them used, abused, or otherwise

so what do i do now?

[LostNotFound]

you tell your friend he's not your friend but a dikhed and then you tell him to stop doing this to the girl.

if he fails to comply you go and tell the girl.

is this guy your boss? *scrolls up to check*

well he's assistant manager so can't really fire you..so ye go for it kick his ass

[nuevo]

Leave him alone, if you want to tell him something just tell him, but I don't see a point about defending this "poor good girl". Everybody does something like that, they just aren't telling everybody what do they think or do.

[vashti]

If a girl is falling for a guy, there is very little anyone else can do to stop it. I suppose you could always drop subtle hints, like "damn, that guy sure plays a lot of girls!", but anything more will only alienate her.

BTW - what do you mean by him using "degradation" to win her? Sounds odd.

[Mathias]

If a girl is falling for a guy, there is very little anyone else can do to stop it. I suppose you could always drop subtle hints, like "damn, that guy sure plays a lot of girls!", but anything more will only alienate her.

BTW - what do you mean by him using "degradation" to win her? Sounds odd.

I've read the book in question. Yeah, it's manipulation, it's stupid, and probably ineffective at best.

Fun read, though.

As to the OP, butt out. You're not her fairy godmother.

[vashti]

Degradation, though? How is THAT supposed to work?

[misombra]

this reminds me of my friend and that idiot she was recently seeing.

he let her borrow this book called, "the art of seduction."

as she read all this she realized she was being used as an experiment, and she snapped.

but yeah, there's nothing you can do about this.

does he actually want to date her or... what is he trying to do?

[vashti]

this reminds me of my friend and that idiot she was recently seeing.

he let her borrow this book called, "the art of seduction."

as she read all this she realized she was being used as an experiment, and she snapped.

Oooh! Was that the guy you made that thread about?

[misombra]

yup. that's the guy.

[Gigabitch]

I don't think you can really help her, but I understand why you would want to.

The best thing you can do is buy a copy of that book and give it to her.

[BrotherCanada]

yikes, well if he really does like her then his methods shouldnt really matter, if he will actually care for her then thats fine, but if he jsut wants to pocket her in bed then you should drop some hints to her, otherwise she could get really hurt

[PowerGrid]

i want to drop her hints, but i get tongue tied when im around her, shes one of the few women that make something sensible in your mind come out in complete jibberish. I am meeting her today at work with this assistant manager at the same time ill post how it goes

[Mathias]

I don't think you can really help her, but I understand why you would want to.

The best thing you can do is buy a copy of that book and give it to her.

[url]http://lovestyle.org/biblio/Neil%20Strauss%20(Style)%20-%20The%20Game%20(complete%20e-book).pdf[/url]

Knew I had the link somewhere.

[vashti]

[url]http://lovestyle.org/biblio/Neil%20Strauss%20(Style)%20-%20The%20Game%20(complete%20e-book).pdf[/url]

Knew I had the link somewhere.

Bahahahahahahahahah!!!! After looking at a couple of pages, now I know for sure where GrkScorp learned his "style"! Hysterical!

[Mathias]

Bahahahahahahahahah!!!! After looking at a couple of pages, now I know for sure where GrkScorp learned his "style"! Hysterical!

It's a fun read. I think there are one or two bits of truth to be found in there (confidence is a big deal, etc.), but the rest is just a trashy, hilarious book. It's not bad.