getting marry soon but......

[daisyMac]

I’ve been with my partner 7.5 years. At the beginning of dating period, I found out he had a very special interest – pretend his ex-girlfriend posted her half nude photos on those dating site or share those photos on some forums. I already told him it’s very unacceptable due to 1. pretending ur ex-gf? 2. post half nude photos? 3. he keeps watching their bodies make me so upset. I believed he stopped for a while. However, I found out he went to those dating website again. Now I don’t know what he’s playing, pretend again or he actually looking for “Matches”. I understand a man look for some porn site, it’s acceptable and he knew that. However, we are getting marry 5 months later. I feel so helpless.

Anyone can give me some advice please?

[oldskool83]

it calls for the are we on or off talk. anyone getting married shouldnt be on a dating site. playing pretend is very bad at this point in the game. its possible you may want to speak to a marrige counsular ahead of time or a pastor if your going that route. i kinda feel this is a major red flag and could deem your wedding off.

[jetta86s]

Just trust the man and get on with your own life. You can't force people to stop what they like to do. Well I personally think his not kind of respecting you. But its not that big of a problem is it?