I'm Confused

[cu_tigers90]

Hey.

Alright, I'm in a pretty confusing situation. I'm 15 years old, and the girl is 14. She keeps sending all kinds of signals but I can't figure out if she likes me.

We see each other about twice a week because our sisters play softball together, so we hang out. I think she's been flirting with me, but I don't know her well enough to figure out if she actually is flirting with me. She did give me a clue, though.

Thursday night, at the softball game, I brought up the point that I wanted to go see the new Star Wars movie. She then got excited and said "Me too! Maybe me and you can go see it." then I was like "Yeah, maybe" because it kind of surprised me so I didn't know what to say. Then she turned to her mom (who was sitting right there) and said "Mom, can we go?" and her mom said she didn't know.

My mom also said she came looking for me. Now, I don't know if she considers me a really good friend or if she likes me or what. My cousin was talking to her about it and she asked her if she thought we were going to go out. She said "It's a possibility, but I want to get to know him better" so that didn't really tell me anything. That was a couple of weeks ago, so maybe she's gotten to know me since then. I don't know.

Now, here's my problem. I want to tell her I like her, but I don't know how and I don't know when. I'll probably see her this Tuesday. Should I tell her I like her? And if so, how?

Advice is GREATLY appreciated. I really like her. She's not shallow like most girls. She doesn't care what people think about her. Yet, she's still the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. She's really nice, too. She never complains about how bad her life sucks and who gets on her nerves and what-not, and I really like that. I feel like I can talk to her about anything.

But, anyways, thanks in advance.

[Ratfish256]

I would just save yourself alot of trouble and come out and say it.

[cu_tigers90]

Yeah, but the problem is I don't know what to say?

[artyemi]

HEYYY TIGER!

First you say "wanna go to the movie with me."

Then, after the movie, you can talk.
Shhhh, don't talk during the movie.

And then, just Trust yourself, and something will come out.

[cu_tigers90]

HEYYY TIGER!

First you say "wanna go to the movie with me."

Then, after the movie, you can talk.
Shhhh, don't talk during the movie.

And then, just Trust yourself, and something will come out.

She's already asked me to the movies. The only problem is we might not get to go.

For one thing, her parents are VERY overprotective. There's still some uncertainty as to if her parents are going to give her permission. I'm friends with her mom and both of our families are friends, so that's definitely going to help.

Another problem is the fact that we're going to see Star Wars. Well Star Wars doesn't come out until the 19th, so we'd have to go the 20th. My mom's wanting us to leave that night because we're going to Mississippi. I'm trying to convince her to let us leave very early Saturday morning, and I think she might do that because she knows how much I like the girl and she wants me to date her. If we don't get to go, the soonest we could go would be the 27th, and we might be going to Illinois for an entire week. Also, the last time I'll get to see her is May 19th because that's my sister's last softball game.

I want to tell her this Tuesday. I don't know why, I just feel I should. I don't want her to think I don't like her and give up on me. I also don't want any other guy moving in because she is definitely a looker.

I just need to know how I can build up to it, and what should I say because I really have no idea. Any ideas would help.

[cutiekitti16]

I think you should tell her you like her. If you'll read my latest post ( i would LOVE some advice) you'll understand. I'm in sorta the same position. She might like you but think you don't like her that way. Just take a chance! What if you both like each other but will never know cause you're both afraid?!

[cu_tigers90]

Good point. I don't think I've been sending the right signals to her, so she probably thinks I don't like her.

I plan on telling her next time I see her...which will be Tuesday hopefully.

[cu_tigers90]

Alright, here's what happened.

Last night at the ballgame, she showed up about 20 minutes before the end of the game. I started talking to her but she kept acting like she wanted me to go away, but I didn't really pick up on that. I asked her if she still liked the guy she used to like, and she said "Which one? I think it was Jared when I told you that. Or was it Ben? No, it was Jared, but I like James now." So I sit there, kind of shocked, and all I can say is "Oh."

Then, I said "Well, I feel like I should tell you something. I like you." and she goes "I know." This took me completely off guard. I was like "How do you know?" and she says "Because I'm smart." and I go "Was I that obvious?" and she said "Yeah."

Then I tried to change the conversation by asking "So are your parents gonna let us go to the movies?" and she said "I don't know, they're wanting to come so they'll probably come with us." This made me mad, and then she left. Her friend was there and I was venting out my frustration on him. He said "Well, you didn't here this from me, but she's thinking about bringing you to our school dance."

My only question now is, if she asks me, should I go? Because there's no way I'm gettin involved in a relationship with this girl. She changes guys more than I change socks. I could still have fun with her, though, right?

[Ratfish256]

Save yourself the trouble and dont get mixed up in it.