Uh, don't learn from gay men trying to pick you up on what techniques to use to pick up women.
Best way to learn is from personal experience. If you feel you are ready to visit a gay bar, then you are ready for approaching and asking out women.
Go out and do it today!
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~