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    Is the guy I'm seeing jealous when he said this?

    Hi. I've been seeing a guy for 4months exactly. We both like each other a lot, but we are very cautious. Last night, he and I were texting each other while watching the Lakers games. He was watching it at his friend's house and I was watching it at my house with my friends. After the game, he texted me, what I was doing with my friends. I texted him saying it was one of my friend's birthday and she was celebrating it at a club so I was going to stop by for a little bit. I asked him what he was upto. He said he was at his friend's house chilling and said to have fun at the club. I don't usually go to clubs, I'm not a big fan of it, I only go if one of my closest friends has her birthday party there, otherwise I don't go. I texted him to enjoy his time with his friends.
    About 3 hours later, he texts me asking me are you having fun?
    I texted him saying, honestly no, since it's not my thing, and I was leaving soon. I asked him what he was doing and he said he was at a bar with his friends drinking. I had a few drinks, but not drunk or buzzed, and we texted each other saying how we really like each other.

    Was he jealous that I was at a club since he texted me like 3 hours after I said I was going to a club? like a little concerned? is it a good thing that he thinks of me and texts me while he's drinking?

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    Probably he was just checking up on you to see how you were doing, and if you were safe. It's also a check to see if you're thinking of him, or too busy grinding up on another guy.

    I'd say there's a good chance he likes you.
    "Well, then," the Cat went on, "you see a dog growls when it's angry, and wags its tail when it's pleased. Now I growl when I'm pleased, and wag my tail when I'm angry. Therefore I'm mad."

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    I don't think he's jealous. He's probably just into you and wondering what you're up to.

    He's checking in to see if he is holding your interest. This is a good sign.
    “Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist”--George Carlin

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    no, i don't think he is jealous... he was just concerned or something... nothing to worry about

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