Female Orgasm

[Seb87]

How is it determined how fast a girl orgasms.

Is it how she is built or how he is "doin" it.

[equivo]

There's about 7 million topics on this already. Use the search function, you'll find plenty of info.

[Ellynn]

Its both. Some women are alot more sensitive then others. So some men can get them to cum....no problem. And then there are some girls they have to really work with....to get them to cum. (Im one of those women...sighs)...

[shh!]

In addition to technique, there are also psychological and emotional factors to female orgasm.

[Ellynn]

In addition to technique, there are also psychological and emotional factors to female orgasm.

Yup......I have found that to be true also. I had no problems when it came to cumming with a guy I was dating for a long long time. But when its someone new....it definately takes work. Plus it helps if I lay off the solo sex for awhile.

[disasterjohn]

relaxation!!! if shes not relaxed..then you're in trouble.... mental, emotional and physical stimulation.

If you cant do all of them... then you're fighting something you cant handle.

[chelsee]

it's more how he is doin it. if you let the girl be on top she is in more control of how it feels and she will orgasm more.

[disasterjohn]

yes, that too

[Seb87]

I was j/w cuz I felt pretty proud of myself cuz I did better then any guy Id talked to with my ex. I dunno mabye she was just sensative..... or mabye Im good. Not gettin to confident tho...

[disasterjohn]

Yeah.... first time i tried something on my g/f... got her to orgasm 3 times that night. and i didnt have a freakin clue wtf i was doing... was the first for me. and no we didnt have sex.... i was freaked out about it. and no she wasnt faking... bit hard for her to fake the muscle spasms she was having. =]

[shh!]

No it isn't.

[disasterjohn]

you're saying you can make the muscles in your lower abs spasm?

[chelsee]

shh! why is Lloyd wrong?

[shh!]

you're saying you can make the muscles in your lower abs spasm?

Of course. Can't you?

And chelsee, I don't know why Lloyd is always wrong, but he is. You should ask him.
:-D

[disasterjohn]

no.. I cant. hehe I wouldnt fake it either. doesnt do anything for anyone.

have to say you would have to have awesome muscle control to be able to force yourself to have muscle spasms.