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Thread: WTF??? interested or not??

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    WTF??? interested or not??

    ok so i was talking to this girl online and we decided to go out. (We didnt meet online. We were friends from before.) I gave her option to take the initiative because I had done so and to no avail. So I told her, if you wana do something call me up. So she calls me on sat night to go out, but i was busy. She calls me up again Sunday to go to the mall but because of my hectic schedule this week, i wasn't able to do ANYTHING. I told her I would call her. I called her up...no answer. IM'ed her, no response. Called her up and left a message, and still nothing. So what's the deal?? Did I f-up? Is she still interested? What should i do?

    Thanks in advance!
    Last edited by y3kbuddy; 25-02-04 at 05:38 AM.

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    Either revenge or genuinely busy. When did she give you her contact information. Before you blew her off or after?

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    I've known her for a while now so i've had her info for a while but never really ""talked". She kept blowing me off when i asked her so I gave her the option to do it when she is ready. We started getting a little closer after her dog died. any ideas?

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    Are her excuses legitimate? Dog dying sounds legitimate. If it's legitimate it's not personal. Ask her to contact you, again.

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    she asked me to do something twice, but i legitametly had to blow her off. all this happened after her dog died. after i blew her off twice, she wont take my calls or reply. I told her that I would call her and everything.

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    ok I just talked to her, and she was incredibly busy and thats y I hav'nt been able to reach her. Guess I was tooo eager huh? well everything worked out.

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    .. ANOTHER PROBLEM SOLVED.... I will sleep well...

    oh wait... I had nothing to do with this..
    "Remember always, that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one."
    - - Eleanor Roosevelt
    " It's not who we are that holds us back, it's who we think we're not."
    - - Michael Nolan
    "...to love and lose, is better than not to love at all..." .... Lord, whats his name....
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    There is no 100% way to know if they are or aren't. Sometimes, people get attracted to you through you being attracted to them. It gives them a thought they might have not had before. Go, for it.

    Really. Pick up the damn phone.

    "Only the Dead have seen the end of War."
    - Plato

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    yea the wa i see it is, she's 'made a move' twice (to no avail), now it's kinda your turn don't you think?

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