Fantasizing about another man while in a relationship.

[Indigo]

Sex with my boyfriend doesn't satisfy me, but everything else about our relationship is amazing! I don't want to leave him, but when he reminds me of how unsatisfied I am or talks about how he can't satisfy me I can't help but remember the only one night stand I had and how great it was. The one night stand man was able to make me orgasm, which is a very big deal. It would be an understatement to say I don't orgasm easily with sex.

My boyfriend and I have tried different things, and he can make me come sometimes, but it's rare. It usually feels good, but not satisfactory. I sometimes find myself fantasizing about the other man, and I don't know what to do about it.

[vashti]

Enjoy it. It's only fantasy, after all.

[Indigo]

Right, but I want to fix the fact that I think of him so much. I feel like contacting him, but I know where that would lead.

[Gigabitch]

So, what was it about him that made you orgasm? Was it the excitement of having a one-night stand?

[MsSydneyLane]

Alot of men and women are guilty of this. However, its wrong if its constant and you don't enjoy having sex with your partner anymore. Maybe it's best if you talk to your partner about your sex life.

When you started this relationship with him, was sex already that bad or you just kinda develop this feeling over time?