Lost love of my life - grass is greener maybe
Hello all
I am in desperate need of help.
I have been with my ex for over 8 years and she has moved on and admits she is seeing another and has slept with him.
To cut a long story short I realised that our relationship has been a bit stale for about 12 months now, those 18 months have also contained maybe happy times.
We have two children, but they are from her previously relationship, but they say me as their dad.
Things have been difficult over recent months which led to me moving out for 10 weeks to give her the space she said she needed and at the time of moving out all she was sayng was "I want to be on my own" and "I dont want a relationship anymore". I respected her wishes and moved, but nothing appeared to have changed so I moved back in two weeks ago and have now found out that she considers us over and has been seeing someone for weeks now.
I have been through massive emotional turmoil since I found out and she has moved back to her parents and house and continues to see him.
So what I ask for is advice on how to win her back? I admit that I have not been Mr Perfect over the last 12 months and now I am sure she is experiencing all the excitement of a new relationship, but I love her so much.
Sadly I have already done the begging and pleading thing and that has got me nowhere so any advice on how to win back the love of your life even though she says she as moved on?
Cheers