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    Can anyone explain to me what could be going on?

    I've been in a relationship with a guy for 3 1/2 months. He seemed to go from hot to cold during the relationship a few times. Our main method of communication was facebook. There were a few times he would just randomly delete me from there but act like he didn't. The first time he did I called him on his being distant and thought that was his way of breaking up with me. He said he wasn't trying to break up with me and then added me back after about a week and claimed he didn't delete me.

    The second time it happened I just ignored it and he added me back again acting like he didn't know how it happened. He and I haven't been able to spend allot of time together because of his work schedule and my school schedule. He had made references to wanting to be more serious but for whatever reason his actions haven't shown that.

    It happened again and I sent him an email about 2 days ago which he hasn't responded to. What could be going on here. None of this makes any sense to me.
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    He sounds like a spy. Dont ask too many questions.

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    That would probably be the best outcome I could hope for.

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    Not really. Maybe he works for the jews. Be careful what you wish for.

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    first of all, hes immature. he doesnt know what he wants. and he doesnt know how to tell you that you were just an option.

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    Porn addiction and hypofrontality.

    Everyone needs sex, so.. if he isn't getting it from you, he's getting it from someone or something(porn) else.

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    Maybe he deletes you when his other girlfriend tells him to stop interacting with you? You've only known him three months, why put up with someone who obviously doesn't care much. If he did, your main means of communication certainly wouldn't be through facebook.
    Do you even have a telephone number for him or does he have yours? If you don't, then *coolstorybro* is definately on to something.

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    You've only been dating a couple of months. Who CARES why he does this? At this point in the relationship, all you should be thinking about is whether or not you want to live with it.

    Women tend to over-think things.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Thank you all for replying. I've actually known him for about 4 years. I thought he liked me, I don't have phone so he never had a reason to give me his number. Last time this happened and I asking him what was going on he said he was just busy. What exactly should I do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by punk View Post
    What exactly should I do.
    I always tell people to dump people who aren't showing them that they care and he's evidently hiding something as well with all this deleting and re-instating you on facebook. Why bother with him, get rid of him and stop stagnating yourself from finding someone who does care?

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    Stop all the facebook, texting and email bullsh1ttery and just talk to the guy like face to face. Or is that too hard for people to do these days? Or failing that, have a conversation on the telephone.

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