Hey guys and girls. Others might have heard my story already. Girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me and we are currently on a break. I just started NC recently in order to move on. Things were quite dim for the first few weeks and I was really feeling sad and worthless.
Anyway, I am on an emotional high tonight and just wanted to share it with everyone. I met a new girl at the gym yesterday and took her out for some drinks tonight. Nothing romantic, just friendly, but we had an amazingly good time. It was so great to get out there and talk to other girls and get my confidence back. The first month I stayed home most of the time and waited for my ex to change her mind. Can we say pointless?
I can honestly say you will feel so much better if you move on and meet other girls. You don't need to get romantically involved, but just take a few out and have a good time. It will certainly get your mind off your ex and prove to you that there are other great girls out there. Sure my ex might change her mind, but in the meantime I am moving forward and not looking back.