should i do this or hold off?

[jsw]

Hi everyone.

I have been casually dating this girl that I like a lot for about a month now. We are both in to each other but we just want to take our time.

I am meeting her tonight for our fourth date, but we talk a decent amount of time so we have gotten pretty close. I work in the city so she wants to pick me up from the station, pay for dinner and whatever we decide to do after, and then drive me home 30 min. She says she wants to do this because I have planned and paid for most things so far.

My question is should i arrive with flowers just as a way to say thanks for doing all this? She has paid for a few things, like a few rounds after we had dinner, so its really not necessary for her to pay for everything. On our third date we went into the city and I mailed her train tickets as a surprise so she didnt have to pay for them, so would doing that kind of stuff seem a little over the top?

Thanks a lot!!

[girl68]

flowers aren't necessary. just be kind say thank you and how nice it is to be treated out.

flowers won't make or break anything so I say keep the flowers for a special odd night surprise.

[Pilotdxb]

flowers aren't necessary. just be kind say thank you and how nice it is to be treated out.

flowers won't make or break anything so I say keep the flowers for a special odd night surprise.

Agreed.

They wont get you anything that isnt already within reach.

[ShellyZ]

You know what girls appreciate even more than flowers? A sincere thank-you, followed by a truly awesome kiss.

OK, maybe that's just me, but you can't go wrong with that!