Ok, so 2 weeks ago, my girlfriend of 2years dropped a bombshell on me. We were engaged, lived together and everything appeared rosy. Then she suddenly turned round after Christmas and said she did not know if she wanted to be with me any more and left me. We had not argued and there were no warning signs.
Talking to her after, she said that she felt that she was not ready to get married and settle down have kids etc. Apart from that, she said that our relationship was good. I have told her that those things can be put off until whenever she wants and we can take things slowly.
Since we split, she has said that she thinks we may be able to work things out. I get a lot of "I miss you" texts and, when asked if she thinks we can work this out she says "Yeah, probably". When talks have gone well and I asked if we could get back together, she has said "Not yet but soon". We met up this evening and had a great time and she told me we should meet again later this week, but I am still in limbo. I think she just wanted a bit of space - am I being stupid or just impatient? How should I act and what should I say? I really want to work this out!! She has had plenty of opportunities to say it is definitely over but has not done?