I got a letter from someone on facebook telling me my girlfriend went out on a date with another guy a few days before my birthday. I just got this last night i don't know how i should approach her about this. I just told her i wanted to speak to her in person before so we will be meeting today after work.
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24-02-10, 12:15 AM #1
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What should i do i got a letter on facebook about my girl going on a date
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24-02-10, 12:25 AM #2
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Ask her about it... don't accuse her, just let her know that someone is in your business and ask if she knows them.
Can't stress this strongly enough, so I'll say it again: don't accuse her of anything. There are a lot of haters and assholes on FB, take any message you get on there with copious amounts of salt.Keep your love life off Facebook, don't cheat, it's never too soon to make a move on a woman you like.
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24-02-10, 12:32 AM #3
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I agree with Chup. Do not accuse. It might be someone being a jerk or trying to sabbotage your relationship. It is FB afterall, not your best friend telling you to your face or with photos as proof.
Hopefully its nothing bad.So, so you think you can tell Heaven from Hell,
blue skies from pain.
Can you tell a green field from a cold steel rail?
A smile from a veil?
Do you think you can tell?
And did they get you to trade your heroes for ghosts?
Hot ashes for trees?
Hot air for a cool breeze?
Cold comfort for change?
And did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage?
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24-02-10, 12:40 AM #4
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how about if I know this is actually true. I'm confused as to what I should do
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24-02-10, 12:44 AM #5
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Well, if it is true what are you willing to put up with? People will treat you how you allow them to.
I think you know the answer.So, so you think you can tell Heaven from Hell,
blue skies from pain.
Can you tell a green field from a cold steel rail?
A smile from a veil?
Do you think you can tell?
And did they get you to trade your heroes for ghosts?
Hot ashes for trees?
Hot air for a cool breeze?
Cold comfort for change?
And did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage?
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24-02-10, 12:45 AM #6
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I love her and I'm confused but I don't want to be treated like this and I don't think anyone should be
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24-02-10, 12:54 AM #7
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dump her then.
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24-02-10, 01:16 AM #8
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Well, that's a very different question; why didn't you say that in the first place?
Have you both agreed that you're exclusive? Was this, in fact, a date and not just friends having dinner? Who's this mystery friend that told you this?Keep your love life off Facebook, don't cheat, it's never too soon to make a move on a woman you like.
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24-02-10, 01:16 AM #9
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If it's true, then you've been betrayed and have to act accordingly.
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24-02-10, 01:55 AM #10
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yes we are both exclusive . It was a date in fact her friend doesn't want her to find out she sent it to me.
Originally Posted by Chupacabras
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24-02-10, 02:01 AM #11
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You don't need to drag the friend into it. Either it's true or it isn't, and your girlfriend doesn't need to know who ratted her out.
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24-02-10, 02:02 AM #12
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Then follow Giga's advice.
Keep your love life off Facebook, don't cheat, it's never too soon to make a move on a woman you like.
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24-02-10, 04:24 AM #13
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You know already what to do.
"Why are you an atheist?"
"because I paid attention in science class."
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24-02-10, 05:20 AM #14
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She just needs a girl ego boost so she's going out with others, it doesn't have anything to do with you, unless she's doing it to make you jealous.
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24-02-10, 05:27 AM #15
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There should be an anti-thanks button.
Keep your love life off Facebook, don't cheat, it's never too soon to make a move on a woman you like.
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