Would you go to the strip club with your woman?

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Alright guys I wanna know.

Why or why not?

I recently told my boyfriend I would go to the strip club with him for his birthday. We've gone together in the past(as friends), but he says now that we are together it would be weird. Even when we went as friends, he wasnt as into it as I was. I was the only one tipping the girls.

Now I know for a fact that I dont get insecure in situations like the strip club, so I know a fight wouldnt be happening unless things just go way out of line. I've gone with an ex before and had no problems whatsoever.I just had a great evening.

So what are you guys' point of views on this? Would you do it if your girlfriend offered and you know she isnt insecure about it?

[Charlie Boy II]

yeah sure, if she was into it. I think it would kind of turn me on actually.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Lol when I go to the strip club, or any club for that matter, I get horny and wanna go home and ****. I get hot and bothered from the atmosphere.

[Yggdrasil]

I don't see why not. If your partner is ok with it and you are ok with it, it shouldn't be a problem. What other people think is their problem.

[Peter Pry]

He may be reticent out of a misguided "respect" for you, thinking that you might only be offering to make him happy, and not out of your own desire. This may also have been what was going on before, when you were friends, with him not getting into it. But then again, maybe he's just not into strip clubs, in which case, maybe you can find an activity you both enjoy. If he really is into strip clubs, then don't just offer. Grab him and drag him there to show him that you really want to go.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Oh I'm gonna make him go(lol). I think he's doing it out of respect for me because he had no problem going before as friends but now it's different to him. I honestly have no problems with going with him at all. But he says it feels wrong now. He says he wouldn't even go if his boys asked him too.

[Yggdrasil]

Oh I'm gonna make him go(lol). I think he's doing it out of respect for me because he had no problem going before as friends but now it's different to him. I honestly have no problems with going with him at all. But he says it feels wrong now. He says he wouldn't even go if his boys asked him too.

Not sure here, you'll have to ask him, but it sounds to me like he's telling you that you're the only one for him as of 'now' and he's even not interested anymore in going to strip bars since you seem to fullfill all his needs.

Just a guess but I think a pretty good one.. Why don't you ask him?

And you can't really make him do anything he doesn't want to do, that would be controlling.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

I lol'ed after the statement cuz I was kidding lol. I wouldnt make him go for real.

I already did asked him and his exact words were "What do they have that you dont? I'd rather you give me a lap dance and I pay you."

[doppelgaenger]

I've never even been to a strip club lol.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

They're cool once the dancers can dance. I remember this one girl was dancing and no one was studying her cuz she was so boring so she took up her clothes and stormed off the stage. She was so pissed LOL and I was so laughing LOL!

The time I went with my ex, there was a lesbian one there and everytime I passed her she gave me an eye and would go "pssssst" and wink at me and my best friend told me to go get to know her LOL! It was funny and scary at the same time. I swore she would rape me, she looked aggresive.

[Yggdrasil]

I lol'ed after the statement cuz I was kidding lol. I wouldnt make him go for real.

I already did asked him and his exact words were "What do they have that you dont? I'd rather you give me a lap dance and I pay you."

I love it when I am right hehe..

In all seriousness, I think that's a major compliment towards you. I hope you feel special and fully appreciate what he's telling you. Sounds like you got yourself a keeper there.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Yea I feel like I do, and I greatly appreciate it,but most people dont think he is cuz we're "young".

I guess respect,maturity and understanding only can come at a certain age to some people.

[Yggdrasil]

Yea I feel like I do, and I greatly appreciate it,but most people dont think he is cuz we're "young".

I guess respect,maturity and understanding only can come at a certain age to some people.

My 2 cents:

Cent 1: who cares what other people think, your relation is not with 'other people'.

Cent 2: maturity, respect, understanding and age have nothing much to do with eachother.. I know some 18 year old people who are very mature, understanding and respectfull and some 60 year old people who are very immature, disrespectfull and closeminded.

[Raze]

Alright guys I wanna know.

Why or why not?

I recently told my boyfriend I would go to the strip club with him for his birthday. We've gone together in the past(as friends), but he says now that we are together it would be weird. Even when we went as friends, he wasnt as into it as I was. I was the only one tipping the girls.

Now I know for a fact that I dont get insecure in situations like the strip club, so I know a fight wouldnt be happening unless things just go way out of line. I've gone with an ex before and had no problems whatsoever.I just had a great evening.

So what are you guys' point of views on this? Would you do it if your girlfriend offered and you know she isnt insecure about it?

Ummmm... that has danger written all over it. Danger, danger, Will Robinson! That would be like watching each other masturbate to a bad porno.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

I've done it before so I know nothing about insecurities surfacing will be a problem. So why is there danger, Raze?