I hear Mathias has a date tonight....

[Mathias]

And, he leaves town for three weeks after it's over.

Suggestions on how to handle that aspect of it? Ignore it until she brings it up? Just go have fun?

Also, Christmas...WEIRD time for that. Present? No present? No mention?

BTW--situation for those who don't know...Mathias has narrowed down the two girls to one. They've been on about 4 dates, including this one.

Meh, maybe I'll just be Vashti's poolboy.

[drano]

If this has to do with that blonde chick and the girl you dated for four years and felt nothing for, we already know, man.

[drano]

A blunt simple answer, exactly the kind of quality reply my post deserved :thumbs up: But do I insinuate to say this guy seems to get around? :/

[Gribble]

Have fun. Three weeks is nothing. Absence makes the heart grow fonder or some BS like that. If she brings it up just promise to call her or something.

[Gigabitch]

First of all- do your research, drano.

Matt- I imagine you kissing her at the end of the date and telling her you're already looking forward to the next time you get to kiss her. When she asks when you think that might be, tell her, "As soon as possible. The day I get back." Girls need this stuff. It's like Love nutrients. Give her this.

Also give her a present. You're not seriously thinking about not giving this girl you're dating a Christmas present, are you? That makes me want to e-whap you upside the head. WTF are you thinking? You didn't get her anything yet? This is an emergency. Fix this.

[Mathias]

First of all- do your research, drano.

Matt- I imagine you kissing her at the end of the date and telling her you're already looking forward to the next time you get to kiss her. When she asks when you think that might be, tell her, "As soon as possible. The day I get back." Girls need this stuff. It's like Love nutrients. Give her this.

Also give her a present. You're not seriously thinking about not giving this girl you're dating a Christmas present, are you? That makes me want to e-whap you upside the head. WTF are you thinking? You didn't get her anything yet? This is an emergency. Fix this.

Grazie.

And Drano, WTF? Yep, I'm a whore. You do realize the whole "incident" with the blonde was six years ago, right?

Good. I think I should be allowed to date again. I'm just saying...but hey, if I shouldn't be allowed to move on, then more power to you.

[Gigabitch]

Go buy Rachel a Christmas present, whore.

[Mathias]

Go buy Rachel a Christmas present, whore.

Yeah, yeah. I got a lot of crap to do before I go out...but I just woke up.

[Mathias]

I got the present, just to make Giga happy.

[drano]

Grazie.

And Drano, WTF? Yep, I'm a whore. You do realize the whole "incident" with the blonde was six years ago, right?

Good. I think I should be allowed to date again. I'm just saying...but hey, if I shouldn't be allowed to move on, then more power to you.

Hey thanks man. There are 16 subforums with threads ranging into the thousands I’m treading in unfamiliar terrain, the least anyone could do for me as a n00b is offer specified links and, URLs and/or textual or photo chopped imagery to mend knowledge into my fresh existence here at one of the friendliest sites I’ve seen on the web in 3 days

[Mathias]

Hey thanks man. There are 16 subforums with threads ranging into the thousands I’m treading in unfamiliar terrain, the least anyone could do for me as a n00b is offer specified links and, URLs and/or textual or photo chopped imagery to mend knowledge into my fresh existence here at one of the friendliest sites I’ve seen on the web in 3 days

My story in a nutshell:

1. The blonde/LD relationship story.
2. 4 year relationship, broken off by her on my birthday, when I went to visit.
3. Met two new girls. Eventually chose one. Who knows if that'll work out, but I'm at least having a good time.

BTW--quick update from tonight, just dropped Rachel off. Pretty good night...a couple of red flags, though...so we'll have to see.

[Gigabitch]

I logged on here this morning for one reason only: to read this thread. Get out of bed, Mathias! What's up with the red flags?

[jagmeow]

I wanna go to bed. Yet i know if I do, you'll post.

[Mathias]

LOL @ all of you.

Actually, the red flags disappeared, just like they did the first time. I think I'm just having a hard time reading women lately.

I actually had to drive 15 hours to get back for Christmas, so that's why there was a delay. But, everything is good in Mathias-land. I'm exhausted, so I'll tell you guys about the date when I'm awake.

[Gigabitch]

Yeah, after I posted that I remembered you were driving to Texas, so I apologize for being so demanding.

Wait, no I don't. I want details now!